Friday, April 25, 2025

13 Ways to Enjoy Vegas Even With / Without Gambling

Las Vegas is known for its bright lights, casinos, entertainment. It draws hundreds of thousands of tourists each year. Most people who go there want to gamble a little while others have specific destinations in mind. According to MSN.com page Crazy Nomad, here are 13 ways to enjoy Las Vegas

1. Art in plain sight

-Las Vegas does have a trendy, vibrant art scene everywhere you look. Located just off The Strip is The Arts District. This location is known for murals consisting solely of graffiti, odd sculptures and pop up galleries. It's like SoHo and Burning Man came together. The first Friday of each month becomes a giant block party, as musicians, artists, food trucks take over, lending a vibrant, party-like feel to the neighborhood. This neighborhood also includes live painting, quirky thrift stores and an overall laid-back vibe that seems at odds with the fast-paced lifestyle of Las Vegas

2. Eat your way through Vegas

-There are dozens of "hole in the wall" restaurants and world-class restaurants that can be explored. This is a foodie's paradise. From a $4 taco that tastes like you've just stepped into Mexico to high-end restaurants like Joel Robuchon, the food scene is vibrant. The local Chinatown is jam packed with ramen restaurants, Korean barbecue places and even hidden dumpling restaurants the locals guarantee is worth it. Check out The Strip itself for food. There are food courts inside hotels and if you're lucky enough to be in town during a restaurant week or food festival, there's a world of possibility

3. Take in a show

-Las Vegas is a highly popular entertainment capital. There are live shows going on at almost all times. Whether it be a rock or country artist doing a residency, a musical or some magician / illusionist doing a staged show, there's something for everyone. Going off The Strip also provides entertainment. There are risque cabaret acts, smooth jazz lounges and more

4. A hiker's dream come true

-For those who love to hike, there is something here for you! Red Rock Canyon offers spectacular views of scenic drives, sandstone cliffs and hiking trails. There is the option to bike, climb, walk or drive through this area. It is said to calm the mind and make you feel like you are anywhere but Las Vegas. For some truly breathtaking scenery, go out to Valley of Fire State Park or the Hoover Dam or even the Grand Canyon

5. There are secret cabanas and crazy pools

-Las Vegas is known for its hotels and resorts. And with that, are pools and cabanas. These pools can range from small to massive. The experience around them is not what you expect. This include DJ's spinning records while you float in what is almost like a floating daybed while sipping cocktails. The Venetian, Mandalay Bay and Wynn offer unique experiences with their pools. Their pools are like mini oases, offering private cabanas, lunch. You feel like royalty without going near the casinos. If you're seeking something a little more zen, there are adults-only pools and spa-related locations. Even during the high tourist season, you can find a quiet corner to soothe your troubled mind

6. Speakeasies and hidden cocktail bars take you back in time

-Las Vegas is known for its organized crime-related history. As such, hidden cocktail bars and speakeasies are common here. They make you feel as though you've stepped back in time. These places are hidden in pizza parlors, behind unmarked doors or even behind vending machines. The Laundry Room, for example, only allows a handful of guests at a time, and takes mixology seriously. Other mob-related sights that are a must-see include The Mob Museum, a museum dedicated to all things organized crime-related. They have an underground bar, giving the feeling that Prohibition never ended

7. Museums beyond belief

-One of the most popular museums in Las Vegas is The Mob Museum. This museum is dedicated to all things La Cosa Nostra (This thing of ours). It details the history of the Italian Mob, who once had a pretty good presence in Las Vegas. You'll get to see items related to real life Mafiosos, such as wiretaps, a barber chair a Mafioso was once gunned down in, learn about real life heists, such as the famed Lufthansa heist of the 1970s and more. Another one is the Neon Museum, which is little more than an outdoor area filled with old, disused neon signs. If interactive is more your thing, check out the Pinball Hall of Fame. Or Meow Wolf's Omega Art, a playground disguised as a supermarket

8. Thrill rides in Las Vegas

-Las Vegas is the last place you would expect to find thrill rides. Head over to the Stratosophere Hotel, the one that looks like the Seattle Space Needle. There are thrill rides here. Or take a zipline through Freemont Street. There's also rollercoasters galore in the city

Insanity. Located on top of the Stratosphere

9. The Fremont Street Experience must be done at least once

-This is a must for all visitors to Las Vegas. The canopy above Freemont Street is an LED screen with flashing images and pulsing music. It can be set to classic rock or any other genre. Street performers, live music, ziplining above the street and even open-air bars come together to make a once in a lifetime experience that must be tried by all. Unlike the glitz and glamor that the Strip offers, there is a gritty and retro charm to Fremont Street. Classic, retro casinos, neon signs and dive bars offer enough history to tell a tale or two. And if you love people watching, head over to Fremont Street

10. World class spas are perfect for those who need to hit the reset button

-Spas are always good places to go to wind down. "Sin City", as Las Vegas is known, has plenty of spas to help you press the reset button. Canyon Ranch at the Venetian or the Waldorf Astoria Spa offer services like plunge pools, saunas, salt caves and other various health options. You walk in one way but walk out another. Day passes are available for those who visit to use the pool without purchasing the services. You can feel like a high roller without paying the high roller price tag.

11. World class shopping and the window displays that are art in themselves

-Shopping in Las Vegas is one of a kind. The malls tend to be more interesting than the surrounding casinos. The Shops at Crystals and The Forum Shops at Caesar's are lined with high-end, luxury goods, mid-blowing architecture and enough marble to make you think you're in Italy. Just window shopping here is enough of an experience. There are also quirky places to head if you like the strange and unusual. Downtown Container Park offers up stores inside disused shipping containers. There, you'll come across vintage clothing, quirky souvenirs and good coffee. There's something for every taste and budget in Vegas

12. Quirky attractions with no point

-Las Vegas is a unique blend of tacky, glitzy, glamorous and weird. Where else would you find a museum dedicated to erotic history, ride a mechanical horse at a cowboy-themed bar or explore the miniature Eiffel Tower? Drive through wedding chapels are everywhere. There's neon mini golf, bars with axe throwing and even indoor rainstorms

13. Destination hotels that are, in themselves, a destination worth checking into

-Each of the hotels has its own unique things that make it stand out from the rest. Making them a destination within a destination. The Venetian has gondolas and an indoor canal. The Luxor is renowned for its pyramidal shape and bright beam of light shooting straight up at the sky. Resorts World combines the most modern up to date luxury with food halls and live music venues. The budget-friendly options are even mind-blowing. Smaller hotels laser focus on unique, but quirky charm or rooftop bars with great views

Tuesday, April 22, 2025

23 Real World Haunted Locations

Haunted locations and ghosts seem to be one thing a lot of people are fascinated by. It certainly doesn't help when there are programs on TV dedicated to ghost hunting groups investigating haunted locales. These programs include Ghost Hunters, Ghost Asylum, Ghost Adventures, Portals to H--- (I have to blur out the last part because it's a swear word. Hopefully that's okay. It's a show featuring Jack Osbourne investigating paranormal locations). etc. According to MSN.com page Ultimate Travel Advice, here are what they consider to be 23 of the world's creepiest ghost locations

I love reading about haunted locations. Learning not only the history of the place, but also the reason why there is ghostly / paranormal activity is also fascinating

1. Pripyat

-Better known as Chernobyl, this Ukrainian nuclear power station suffered a devastating meltdown in the late 1980s. It was at least a full day before anyone knew something was suspicious. The entire town was evacuated and has not returned. This town was a bustling town full of grateful and happy power plant employees and their families. Today, the streets remain empty. Those who venture here are taken through the Exclusion Zone and given Geiger meters to measure the invisible danger that still lurks around every corner. It attracts those who are interested in the macabre. It has a rather haunting beauty, because of its abandoned state and tragic history


2. Salem, Massachusetts and its supernatural history

-Those who have taken a history class in school know about the Salem Witch Trials. A period of time when mass hysteria overrode logical thinking. When innocent people were convicted of witchcraft and sentenced to death. Today, this city embraces its witchy past, making a very popular destination to visit, especially around Halloween. Tours and museums educate visitors on the dark past. There are even paranormal tours that take visitors through sites where history was made, leading to witnessing spectral orbs, spirits and more. The best time to see Salem is during the month of October, the month of Halloween, when the macabre and sinister factor are turned up to 100%

3. Aokigahara Forest and its enchanting splendor

-For all of the beauty that the Aokigahara Forest offers, it also offers a dark, sad past. Prior to entering, there are signs warning visitors that people truly do love them and that they are appreciated. These ominous signs are posted because many people have gone deep into the bowels of the Aokigahara Forest to commit suicide. That is what led to this forest being also known as the Suicide Forest. It's known to be one of the most haunted locations in the world. There are reports of yurei, or vengeful spirits lurking about, leading to an uneasy sense of dread. Despite the dark history, it's still a beautiful place to see

4. Poveglia Island and its curse

-This is strictly off limits. This island set in a lagoon near Venice was once the home to a quarantine hospital for victims of various plagues. Later, the building was used as a mental hospital. The resident doctor would hurt his victims, and one day, he jumped off of the bell tower in an attempt to commit suicide, but he didn't die right away. Instead, a mysterious fog rolled in and asphyxiated him to death. The souls of those who died there are said to roam the island. When victims of the various plagues died there, they were simply thrown in one mass grave or they were cremated as a preventative action to keep the disease from spreading. It's said to this day most of the soil on Poveglia Island is made of human remains. Because of its strictly off limits, it's considered the forbidden fruit on scary places

5. Paris Catacombs and it's deathly beauty

-Whoever said death couldn't be rendered beautiful had not seen the Paris Catacombs. The bones of over six million people lie here in eternal rest. It was originally created to address the need for the city's overflowing cemeteries. It's since become a popular destination for those interested in the unusual and macabre. The only sounds heard are that of footsteps and the spirits of those entombed there. It's said it was an artist who decided to make these people part of their art and thus, give these people some dignity. That it was an artist who decided to use the bones of the people there and turn them into something beautiful, to give them some dignity

6. Kolmanskop, a ghost town

-Located in the Namib Desert, this haunting ghost town was once a highly bustling diamond mining community. As the diamonds started to dwindle in the 1950s, the town closed up shop and was abandoned. The desert has slowly reclaimed much of the town, buildings becoming partially buried beneath the shifting sands and interiors of buildings inviting in sand dunes. This town stands as a testament to the endeavors humans are willing to go to make money. It's a haunting, but beautiful place

7. Alcatraz Island and its dark history

-Everyone knows from history class that Alcatraz Island was a prison known for being unescapable. Some have tried to escape and were able to actually make it to freedom. Others have tried and have either been recaptured or died. This building housed some of the most notorious criminals in the days when it operated as a prison. Visitors to San Francisco can take tours of Alcatraz Prison and learn the history, learn who was incarcerated there and more. There are spirits abound here, along with ghostly noises, talking or whispers, all sorts of paranormal activity

8. Beelitz-Heilstatten, a sanatorium that once housed Adolf Hitler

-This forgotten sanatorium lies deep in the woods outside of Berlin, Germany. It's a decaying relic, considered to be one of the most chilling places in the world. Built in the 19th century as a tuberculosis hospital, it was later converted to a military hospital to treat wounded soldiers. One of these young soldiers was a young Adolf Hitler, years before he would be known as the Chancellor of Germany or The Fuhrer of the Nazi Party. The Soviets moved in later on and when they left, the building was left to its own accord. Nature is slowly reclaiming this building. The thing that makes this building unsettling is that medical equipment, such as wheelchairs, still exist there. They've been untouched by humans. Walls are covered in graffiti, medical equipment is rusty from the elements, all adding to a nightmare waiting to happen. It's believed that long-deceased patients still haunt the surgery rooms and patient rooms

9. La Paz and the market of witchcraft

-In La Paz, Bolivia, there is a market dedicated to the dark arts and more. Where you can get everything you need to start dabbling with both good and bad witchcraft. This market is called the Mercado de las Brujasor (Witch Market). The stores here are run by local shamans, called yatiri, who sell everything from love potions to llama fetuses to dried frogs. Outsiders who visit feel as though they have entered a horror movie, encountering items used in both good witchcraft and bad witchcraft. These items are used for rituals and ceremonies, that can be sacred or sinister. The vendors are incredibly friendly and always willing to answer questions to those curious people. But there is always a feeling of curses, whispers, and ancient traditions lurking over the market

10. Eastern State Penitentiary and the whispers within

-Located in Philadelphia, this foreboding structure was once the most highly feared prison in America. It earned its sinister reputation from using solitary confinement as a way to control inmates, but instead the solitary confinement drove them insane. It was built in 1829, with creepy Gothic architecture, long shadowy halls make it look like something out of an Edgar Allan Poe story. When it operated as a prison, Al Capone was once an inmate here. Now operating as a historical museum, visitors can learn the grim history of its heyday. Shadowy figures lurk inside the cells. Whispers are abound throughout the prison. Overall, this is one of America's scariest prisons

11. Oradour-sur-Glane, with their eerie silence

-On June 10, 1944, the Nazis murdered 642 residents of this sleepy French village. It was one of the many brutal events of WWII. Instead of rebuilding, the French government decided it was better to leave the town exactly as it was, a sort of living, breathing history museum. Going through this town, you feel as though you've stepped back in time, back to the days of WWII. Cars are left to rust in the beautiful blue skies and sunshine weather. Buildings are riddled with bullet holes. Homes are scorched from fire. The church, where the innocent 642 victims were brutally killed, stands open, eerily silent, its altar blackened by fire. This stands as a monument to those who perished. While it's not spirits who haunt this French ghost town, it's the weight of history who haunts it. It's chilling, chilling you down to the bone

12. Isla de las Munecas and the dolls that watch you

-Located in Xochomilco, Mexico, the story behind the Isla de las Munecas (Island of the Dolls) is that a man named Don Julian Santana living on the island found a girl who had drowned. To soothe her spirit, he brought her a doll. Her spirit continued to torment him, so he started bringing her more dolls, whether they be fully intact or just pieces. One day, the islands' caretaker was found drowned in those same canals. There are said to be whispers all around

13. Door to H--- and its highly unsettling nature

-In the city of Turkmenistan, is the Karakum Desert. And in this desert, an eerie orange light glows at all hours of the day and night. This eerie orange light is known as the Door to H--- or the Darvaza Crater. This fire has been burning for over 50 years. It was the leftover result of a Soviet oil drilling mishap in 1971. When geologists attempt to prevent the methane gas leaks by setting fire to it, they expected it would burn itself out in a few days. They were wrong with a capital W. The result was that it never stopped burning! It's still burning to this day! The pit is 230 feet wide, and emits an almost underworld feel to it, because of the intense heat. Adding to the eeriness of it is the roaring flames that lick and crack beneath you. It makes you feel as though you're standing on the edge of the world, about to take a tumble into the underworld. This location is one of the most truly bizarre, unsettling and strongly eerie places in the world

14. Kuldhara Rajasthan, a phantom village

-It was not abandoned overnight. Story has it that in the 19th century, the locals fled under mysterious reasons, leaving their homes empty. It's said a curse exists over this land, guaranteeing that no one would ever settle the land again. To this day, no attempts have been made to resettle the land and make it fit for human inhabitation. Eerie noises, shadowy figures, a feeling of being constantly watched ensure that those who visit don't stay for long. It is one of India's most haunted locations

15. Houska Castle and the curse it holds

-Located in an isolated forest, many locals think this castle was built with the express purpose of guarding the entrance to the underworld. Locals make sure to stay far away from this eerie location. One story said that a condemned criminal was lowered by rope into the hole to test the theory about winged demons and terrifying creatures existing within the hole. The person who lowered him heard terrifying screaming. When they brought the man up, his hair had gone white and he'd gone insane. Eerie growls and wails are heard from the inside of this fortress, leading the superstitious locals to believe the portal is still open and active

16. Dargavs, the Russian City of the Dead

-A centuries old city located high in the mountainous Russian region of North Ossetia, this city holds many stone crypts. Local legend states that anyone who dares to enter this city will never return. A heavy silence lays over the village, with the strong feeling of being watched constantly. Only the very brave dare to venture to this mountainous cemetery

17. Bodie, California, a wild west ghost town

-This town is preserved as a living, breathing museum to showcase what life was like during the Wild West days. One of the most popular ghosts here is the Angel of Bodie. The spirit is thought to be a child killed by a miner's pickaxe. People who visit note that the town looks as though it was frozen in time

18. Hashima Island, Japan, a dangerous island

-Known to many as "Battleship Island", Hashima Island once held dozens of grateful coal workers thriving in the coal industry. It was abandoned in the 1970s, after the coal ran out. The buildings were left to crumble to the elements, the stairwells are rusty, the glass-less windows stand gaping. It looks like something out of a post-apocalyptic movie. The island gained some needed fresh air when the 2012 film Skyfall, one of the films in the highly successful James Bond series, was filmed here. It's one of Japan's more interesting abandoned locations

19. Hotel del Salto, Colombia, a decaying relic

-A once luxurious hotel overlooking a waterfall and cliff near Bogota, this hotel was once a sign of high luxury. Its beautiful glamor turned dark as it became a place where people went to commit suicide. The building is now abandoned, its walls littered with ivy, the windows are shattered, overall it's perfect for those who love eerie, abandoned buildings. It's now a museum, teaching about the past it once held

20. Underground Vaults in Edinburgh, Scotland

-Beneath the bustling city of Edinburgh are a series of vaults, dating back to the 18th century. Initially used for storage, these vaults then became an ideal hiding place for criminals, victims of the various plagues and the poor residents of the city. When visitors trek through these vaults now, they encounter whispers, cold spots, shadowy apparitions in corners. Adding to the eerie nature is the flickering candlelight and damp stone walls

21. Skeleton Church of Sedlec Ossuary in the Czech Republic

-In the Czech Republic, there exists a church made of a most unusual building material-bones. Human bones. Known locally as "The Bone Church", it's both hauntingly beautiful and hauntingly eerie. Consisting of 40,000 bones, they have been arranged into intricate designs. This is a combination of death and beauty, sort of giving dignity and beauty to those whose bones are located here. It's a must see for those who are interested in death, beauty and history

22. Spreepark Berlin, an amusement park frozen in time

-Looking like something out of a post-apocalyptic movie, Spreepark Berlin stands frozen in time. Located in East Berlin, this once popular amusement park was abandoned in 2002 for unknown reasons. Since then, it has fallen victim to Mother Nature and vandals. The rides rust in the elements, graffiti covers most of the buildings, lending it a chilly air that is reminiscent of a zombie film or post-apocalyptic film. Despite being closed to the public, guided tours are offered

23. Bell Witch Cave and the cursed witch

-This is one of the most famous stories of witchcraft in all of the United States. The Bell family was tormented in the 1800s by a frightening, unknown entity. The entity tormented the family by inducing nightmares and causing all around bedlam for the family. The story has inspired books, films and ghost hunts by both local and nationally known investigation groups. The dark caverns beneath the Tennessee hills induce shivering and chills in visitors, who report an overwhelming sense of dread, seeing strange, shadowy apparitions, hearing ghostly whispers

Thursday, April 17, 2025

10 Cultural Taboos to Avoid When Visiting Australia

Known as "Down Under" by a lot of people, Australia is one of the more popular places for people to travel. But, unfortunately, there are good, respectful tourists and then there are bad, disrespectful tourists. You can usually tell which group tourists fall into depending on what they say or do. According to MSN.com page Crazy Nomad, here are 10 cultural taboos to avoid when visiting Australia

Also, when in doubt, ask the locals. They are a treasure trove of useful information. By asking them what to do and what not to do, while explaining to them that you want to ensure you do things accurately and respectfully, you're showing respect for the cultural customs of that country and you're being a responsible, respectable tourist

This is on my travel bucket list. There are so many things I want to do and see if I get the chance to go to Australia

1. NEVER mock / make jokes about Aboriginal culture

-It's important to remember this: Remember whose country you're in. Making fun of / mocking the local Aboriginal culture is not just wrong, it's plain offensive. Aboriginal culture is a massive part of Australian culture and history, and as such, it would be bad to mock this. They have endured social injustices over the years, including "The stolen generations." This refers to Aboriginal children who were taken from their families. These children were put into households with non-indigenous people and denied access to their culture, language and more. When visiting Australia, ask questions about the culture, show a genuine interest in the history. For example, when visiting Ayers Rock, also known as Uluru, don't touch the rock or climb on it. When you take time to ask curious questions, this shows you are taking an interest in the culture and showing an appreciation for the locals

2. Don't assume that everyone drinks alcohol or likes to casually party

-Australia does have a vibrant party scene, depending on where you're at. It's not safe to assume that everyone will be drinking at all hours of the day or partying. This can create stereotypes and make for some awkward situations. Many people in Australia refrain from drinking due to religious, cultural and personal reasons. Simply respect these choices that those individuals. Just because you're on vacation and want to drink does not mean you need to pressure someone into drinking. If you're unsure, ask that person. When you show that you are sensitive and understanding of various lifestyles, this will work out to your favor. It will put you in a good light with the locals and ensure that all interactions are open, inclusive and respectful

3. Don't mock / criticize Australia's love of sports

-In Australia, there are various sports that are widely loved by the population. Aussie Rules Football, known as AFL (Australian Football League) is one of the most popular sports. In addition to Aussie Rules Football, there's also cricket and rugby. Together, these sports hold a special importance to most Australians. Mocking them and/or criticizing them is wrong. Instead, engage in a conversation about said sports, ask questions. This shows that you are genuinely curious about the inner workings of that sport and shows respect for that sport. Even if sports are not your thing, asking curious questions to learn more about that sport shows you are respecting something that someone is passionate about. It helps you connect better with the locals and understand their traditions better

4. Avoid tipping excessively - it's not usual

-Australia is one country where tipping is optional. Workers earn good wages, so gratuities are not usually expected, like they are in the US. You can leave a small tip, which is appreciated. If you tip excessively, this will show that you are unfamiliar with local customs. Make sure to understand these local customs and respect these practices. By respecting these unique practices, your dining experience will become better. And, if in doubt, ask a local. The local residents provide a wealth of useful information that will result in success!!

5. NEVER confuse Australian and British cultures

-Their accents may sound similar, but they are not the same. Never, for one second, assume that Australian culture and British culture are the same. Yes, they do share historical ties, but that's where the similarity ends. Australia has a wonderfully unique cultural identity that the residents take high pride in. Simply assuming that the cultures of both Britain and Australia are the same shows you are dismissive and unaware. Australia has its own slang, traditions and a unique laid back way of life. Knowing the difference between British culture and Australian culture will help you build a rapport with the locals and, thus, earn their respect while also avoiding insulting their national pride

6. NEVER makes jokes about deadly wildlife - it's a hot button issue

-People do make frequent jokes about the deadly wildlife that exists in Australia. "Everything that can kill you lives in Australia." Australia does have wonderfully diverse and, yes, deadly wildlife that is native to this large country. But, deadly wildlife can live anywhere, not just Australia. Making jokes about it will come off as insensitive, offensive and just plain wrong. Those who live in areas where these deadly creatures live might be offended by the jokes; they have to contend with these creatures on a daily basis and know what risks they pose. Instead, ask curious and respectful questions about these forms of dangerous wildlife. Adopting this mindset will not only keep you from making a major cultural faux pas, it will also help give you an education into the unique biodiversity of the land known as "Down Under." And if you're still curious about the unique wildlife, visit any one of the fantastic zoos in Australia. The staff will provide a wealth of information about the interesting insects and animals that call Australia home

7. Do not discuss hot button issues like immigration or politics

-Politics, religion and immigration are hot button issues to avoid at all costs, no matter where you go. It's especially wise to avoid discussing these issues in Australia. If these topics do arise in conversation, keep an open mind. Be open to different points of view. Don't make assumptions or pass judgement. By keeping an open mind, you are showing respect to that other person and making them feel their opinion is also valued. It also helps show that other person that you understand the diverse social and political landscape of Australia

8. NEVER litter / disrespect the environment

-Australia is known for its rugged landscape and beautiful environments, which provide homes, food and more to the wonderfully diverse animal and insect life. Those in Australia take deep pride in their gorgeous landscape. By littering, you are disrespecting the environment. It's not only frowned upon to litter, but illegal. Dispose of your litter in proper ways, such as waste baskets or bins. Take part in eco-friendly ways of disposing of litter, such as recycling and avoiding single-use plastics. This shows you are being a responsible tourist, helping to keep the environment clean and also helps you show respect for the local values. Not only that, you will make a positive impact

9. Avoid being overly informal in professional settings

-While it's known that a laid-back lifestyle is common in Australia, there's a time and place to be laid-back and there's a time and place to not to be laid-back. It can come off as disrespectful if you're being overly casual in what seems like a professional setting. Until you are told / invited to use first names, it's better to address someone by their title or surname. Ensure you dress appropriately and maintain a polite, professional form of communication in the workplace. This will show that you respect / understand their professional requirements. This will help you build relationships and show awareness of the unique culture of Australia, especially in formal settings. And, if you're unsure, ask. Ask how someone would like to be addressed. Let them know that the reason you ask is to ensure you do things the right way. Asking always works and shows you want to ensure you do things respectfully

10. Avoid mocking / overusing Australian slang

-Australia is known for its unique slang. Mocking it or overusing it can be seen as disrespectful. Listen to how the locals speak and adopt the slang occasionally. This gentle hand approach shows you respect the locals culture without looking as though you're trying to fit in too hard

Monday, April 14, 2025

Top 10 Ritchie Blackmore Songs

Since 14 April 1945 is Ritchie Blackmore's birthday, it would be interesting to highlight the top 10 songs he's written over the years, with Deep Purple, Rainbow, The Outlaws and the various other bands he's worked with. According to the people at Ultimate Classic Rock, here is what they consider to be the top 10 Ritchie Blackmore songs

1. Shake With Me

-1964, The Outlaws

-This song was done with one of Blackmore's early bands, The Outlaws. This was from when he was working with producer Joe Meek. As a teen, he worked with a group of fellow teens who called themselves The Outlaws and dressed in Western-type clothing. This song shows just what Blackmore would be capable of on guitar

2. Wring That Neck

-1968, Deep Purple

-Taken from the album The Book of Taliesyn, Deep Purple allowed Blackmore to really show what he could do on guitar. This song allowed Jon Lord to flex his musical muscles on the keyboard while Blackmore did the same on his guitar

3. Speed King

-1970, Deep Purple

-Featured on the 1970 album Deep Purple In Rock, whose album cover shows the members of Deep Purple in a mockup of Mount Rushmore, "Speed King" was a fast guitar song that let Blackmore tell the whole world it was he would be in charge of Deep Purple

4. Smoke on the Water

-1972, Deep Purple

-This is the most iconic Deep Purple song. Everyone knows the doomy-sounding opening riff on guitar. This song, featured on the 1972 album Machine Head, has inspired countless guitarists to try and replicate the iconic riff on their own guitars

5. Lazy (live version)

-1973, Deep Purple

-Featured on Made in Japan, this song was made at the height of Deep Purple's success. Blackmore fired his way through songs like "Child in Time", "Strange Kind of Woman", "Space Truckin'". But it was "Lazy" that helped show just how talented on guitar Ritchie is

6. Stargazer

-1976, Rainbow

-This song was from the years that Ritchie held the reins as guitarist for the band Rainbow. Featured on their 1976 album Rising, said to be one of the most successful albums of that band, "Stargazer" is described as "castle metal" due to Ritchie's infusion of classical elements with vocalist Ronnie James Dio's lyrics centering on castles, dungeons, dragons and fair maidens

7. Kill the King

-1978, Rainbow

-This song is featured on the album Long Live Rock 'n' Roll. The guitar solo Ritchie produces on this is nothing short of rapid fire fast, along with lyrics still in that medieval theme thanks to vocalist Ronnie James Dio. Overall, the song is great and the guitar solo is rapid fire fast

8. Difficult to Cure (Beethoven's Ninth) Live

-1981, Rainbow

-Blackmore spent years learning classical compositions and finally got to put them to use. Making a rock version of Beethoven's Ninth Symphony. It was featured on the 1981 Rainbow album Difficult to Cure. He showed that it is possible to combine classical music with rock instruments

9. Knocking At Your Back Door

-1984, Deep Purple

-The original Mark II lineup of Deep Purple reunited to record Perfect Strangers. On that album is this track, "Knocking At Your Back Door." When it came to band reunions, the chance of Deep Purple reuniting was about as likely as the Devil ruling the world. The years of fighting between Ritchie Blackmore and Ian Gillan disappeared as the band pounded their way through "Knocking At Your Back Door." Unfortunately, the peace wouldn't last. But for the time being, the Man in Black and his former bandmates were together making music once more

10. Minstrel Hall

-1997, Blackmore's Night

-This song is from the medieval-inspired music that Blackmore is making now. Courtesy of his wife Candice, this acoustic song features track allows Blackmore to indulge his interest in classical music and Renaissance-era music

The Devil's Advocate (1997)

This movie is good, but eerie

Summary

-A talented Florida lawyer is given a chance of a lifetime. He is offered a spot at a high-end law firm in New York with one of the top attorneys in the city. Kevin will soon come to find out that the devil is in the details

Cast

-Keanu Reeves: Kevin Lomax

-Al Pacino: John Milton

-Charlize Theron: Mary Ann Lomax

-Jeffrey Jones: Eddie Barzoon

-Judith Ivey: Mrs. Alice Lomax

-Connie Nielsen: Christabella Andreoli

-Craig T. Nelson: Alexander Cullen

-Tamara Tunie: Jackie Heath

-Ruben Santiago-Hudson: Leamon Heath

-Debra Monk: Pam Garrety

-Laura Harrington: Melissa Black

-Pamela Gray: Mrs. Diana Barzoon






Did You Know?

-When Keanu Reeves took a lower salary for this film, so that the producers could pay the asking price for Al Pacino, Al heard about this and did the same thing. He donated the same amount of the salary he was paid to charity

-In the scene where Eddie Barzoon (Jeffrey Jones) is running through the park, he is being pursued by three joggers who are colors that represent the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, specifically their horses. One is wearing white, the horse of Conquest (Pestilence), one is wearing red, the horse of War and the other jogger is in black, the horse for Famine. Meanwhile, Milton (Al Pacino) was reading a monologue about Barzoon, essentially providing a reason he sent demons after Barzoon. He is seen wearing green robes. Green was the color belonging to the horse belonging to Death

-Initially, Charlize Theron was hesitant to appear fully nude in this film. She had been offered a role in the 1995 film Showgirls, but turned it down because she was asked to appear fully nude. With this film, she thought long and hard before she finally accepted. She agreed to it because she really loved her character

-The character Al Pacino plays is John Milton. John Milton is the author of Paradise Lost, an iconic book about a man's fall from the grace of God. Towards the end of the film, Kevin Lomax quotes the book by saying "Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven."

-There was a scene in the movie showing Mary Ann (Charlize Theron) being directed to the library and finding three people engaging in a threesome, but the scene was deleted. In this scene, she walks in on three people engaging in a threesome and was disgusted by the act. Seeing this level of lewdness increases Mary's suspicions that her husband may be having an affair

-Keanu Reeves spent time with defense attorneys in New York City to prepare for his role

-Even though they were supposed to be husband and wife, close in age in the movie, there was a 10 year difference in age. Keanu Reeves was 31 while Charlize Theron was 21

-Connie Nielsen, who is Danish, had only been in the US for a month before she landed a part in this film. In fact, this was her film debut in the United States

-In this film, Judith Ivey plays Alice Lomax, Kevin Lomax's mother. In real life, she is only 13 years older than Keanu Reeves

-Al Pacino finally got the chance to read the book Paradise Lost in order to prepare for this role

-Instead of reprising his role as LAPD officer Jack Traven in 1997's Speed 2: Cruise Control, he turned down that role because he didn't like the script and chose this film instead

-During filming, Al Pacino had lost hair due to the stress of his dog passing. As a result, he had to wear a wig. He revealed this on the October 13, 2019 episode of Inside the Actors Studio

-Prior to coming to New York, Kevin Lomax won 64 cases, including the Gettys case. When he comes to New York, he wins an additional two cases, bringing the number up to 66. This could be a reference to 666, "The Number of The Beast"

-Connie Nielsen and Tamara Tunie would later go on to star on Law & Order: SVU. Connie Nielsen would play Detective Danielle "Dani" Beck while Tamara Tunie would play the medical examiner, Dr. Melinda Warner

-Keanu Reeves and Craig T. Nelson provided their voices in Pixar's films. Keanu Reeves appeared in the 2019 film Toy Story 4 as Duke Kaboom. Craig T. Nelson provided the voice of Bob Parr in the 2004 film The Incredibles and the 2018 film The Incredibles 2

-As the movie progresses, the suits Keanu Reeves wear get darker in color. Initially, they start out in a light color, but then proceed to get darker as the movie progresses, until finally, he's wearing a black suit. This represents his descending journey into immorality

-In the scene where Kevin is talking to a reporter named Larry in the restroom, he hears a loud boom when splashing water on his face. In the final moments of the movie, he wakes up in the same restroom, but no loud noise is heard. This loud noise represents Kevin's entry in to the world of John Milton or the hallucination he had of it

-Charlize Theron spent one hour each day with a psychotherapist to practice schizophrenia, so she could accurately portray it on film

-When Mary Ann is trying to find a shade of green for the apartment walls, her friend Jackie tells her no. Jackie is seen wearing clothing / jewelry in the same shade of green

-John Milton's plan to ruin Kevin Lomax is foreshadowed initially by having Mary Ann adopt a hairstyle that was different than what Kevin liked. He knew that Kevin would lose interest in his wife and focus on work. It would also focus his attention on another woman with a hairstyle that was similar

-John Milton is heard being fluent in multiple languages. It shows that the Devil knows no boundaries at all. Each religion has a figure who is considered to be the ultimate evil

-In cases of paranormal activity, doing something three times mocks the Holy Trinity-Father, Son, The Holy Ghost. John Milton would laugh three times

Constant Criticism as a Child Leads to These Traits as an Adult

If we are constantly criticized as children, not surprisingly, we won't think too highly of ourselves as adults. This article on MSN.com, by writer Beth Ann Mayer, and the page Parade, is quite frightening only because it's true. Psychology is a fascinating, but also frightening thing. How something that happens to us as children can affect us later down the road in adulthood. Psychology is one of my many interests

The people contributing their experience here include: 

Dr. Erisa M. Preston, a licensed clinical psychologist

Dr. Ernesto Lira de la Rosa, a psychologist and media advisor for the Hope for Depression Research Foundation

Dr. Beth Pausic, a clinical psychologist with Kooth Digital Health

Dr. Gayle MacBride, a psychologist with Veritas Psychology Partners

1. Low self esteem

If you were told things like you didn't deserve love, kindness or nurturing as a child, or you were mocked for little things, then your self-esteem is going to be low. A licensed clinical psychologist named Dr. Erisa M. Preston says "It logically follows that you would believe those things, especially if you are not given other possible choices." She states that signs of low self-esteem include poor eye contact, slumped posture and difficulty advocating for yourself

2. Perfectionism

Failure is not an option. This is a mantra that some parents teach their children. They teach their kids that to fail is bad. To win is good. This puts a lot of pressure on a child to excel at everything, from sports to school to work and more. This will have the child setting impossibly high standards for themselves that may be unattainable. A psychologist named Dr. Ernesto Lira de la Rosa, who also works as a media advisor for the Hope for Depression Research Foundation, says "A child can learn that what they do is never good enough and will try to meet impossibly high expectations and standards as a way to please their caregivers. That is why you may set high expectations for yourself and have a hard time finishing things until they are perfect."

3. Negative self-talk

Everyone has an inner critic. You tell yourself that it's not possible to do this or that. Positive thinking is something that just seems out of reach. Dr. Pausic states "The criticism provided by caregivers can become something that the child (and later as an adult) continues on their own. Often, these adults are harsh self-critics and have difficulty breaking this pattern."

4. Difficulty accepting compliments

Negative talking also allows difficulty at accepting compliments to enter your life. It makes it hard to accept compliments, even from people you love. Dr. Gayle MacBride says "When someone constantly criticizes you, genuine compliments can feel confusing or undeserved."

5. Being hyper-critical of others

Being put down frequently as a child may not affect just the child. Dr. Preston replied that they also look for faults in others or simply assume the worst with people without giving them the benefit of doubt. It's a hard cycle to break, and if you're able to break it, you'll be better off. "You learn as a child that it is normal, expected and acceptable to speak to people in contemptuous and derisive ways. If that is predominantly what you have known, you would believe those are normal and appropriate ways to communicate with others."

6. Hyper-defensive attitudes

Being criticized frequently will make a child feel as though they are under a microscope. Caregivers only see their flaws instead of what they can contribute to society. Dr. Preston says "As a result, you learn to anticipate those criticisms, defend yourself at a moment's notice, and protect yourself in ways you may not have been able to as a child." Struggles with feedback can occur, even when it's designed to help improve your life

7. People-pleasing

Do you feel as though you can't say no to outings even if they don't interest you? Do you have this feeling that you are the last person on your own priority list? If you answered yes to both of these questions, you may be suffering from being a people-pleaser. Dr. MacBride says "A child who was frequently criticized might try to people-please or overly anticipate someone's needs to avoid even the appearance of negativity. They may prioritize others' needs over their own and have difficulty setting boundaries."

8. Self-reliance

Being self-reliant can be a good thing, but it can also be a thing born out of bad circumstances. Dr. MacBride states "But there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. These people become independent and resourceful but also can struggle to trust or connect with others. These individuals have learned 'I'm the only one who will be there for me,' and as such, they operate more like a 'lone wolf.' Remember that it's completely okay to ask for help

9. Social anxiety

Anxiety, especially social anxiety, is common in those who spent most of their childhood being criticized for one thing or another

"If we grow up in an environment where negative and critical feedback is consistent and constant, we may experience a lot of social anxiety because we never know when we're going to be on the receiving end of critical feedback. This anxiety can transform into social anxiety in adult relationships, and we may worry about what others are thinking about us and fear we will upset them." Dr. Lira de la Rosa replies

10. Comparison

Comparison robs us of joy and brings us struggles

"However, children who are consistently criticized will overly rely on comparing themselves to others because they may not have learned to trust their own skills and abilities. As adults, they may constantly compare themselves to other people and beat themselves up for not being like everyone else because they feel inadequate." says Dr. Lira de la Rosa

11. Constant apologies

Saying "I'm sorry" is a powerful thing. Saying it all day indicates something is going on

According to Dr. Lira de la Rosa, "Children may learn to apologize as a way to survive in a highly critical environment. They may continue to engage in this behavior as adults and may apologize for making mistakes or simply being themselves."

12. Trust issues

Trust is the big key to relationships. People who grew up with constant scrutiny and criticism may struggle with this

According to Dr. MacBride, "When a child's primary caregivers are critical, it can be difficult for them to trust others' intentions or motivations. Humans are a deeply social species that crave belonging and connection. Criticism tends to bring shame and severs the feeling of belonging. They may be guarded in their relationships and have difficulty forming close bonds."

13. Difficulty with regulating emotions

Childhood is a time to learn how to deal with and regulate emotions. "You're too sensitive" or "Just relax" may be what you heard on a frequent basis

Dr. Lira de la Rosa mentions "If children do not learn that their emotions are valid and normal, they can have challenges regulating their emotions as adults. Moreover, when children grow up in a highly critical environment, they may experience difficulties regulating what we call 'negative emotions.' They may feel them very intensely and do not know how to self-soothe during these moments."

There are ways to heal yourself from this trauma

1. Validate your feelings

Your caregivers may have made you feel as though your feelings were useless, but do not listen. Your feelings are important

Dr. Lira de la Rosa states "If you are healing from negative childhood experiences, remember that your younger self did the best to survive an invalidating and chaotic environment. As you begin to heal, it is possible that you are learning to honor and feel your emotions. This means that emotions will start slowly, sometimes rather quickly, and reach a really high point, but they will eventually subside. We can learn to ride this emotional wave, and by doing this, we are allowing ourselves to heal and process emotions that we likely did not get a chance to process in childhood."

2. Practice self-compassion

As you come to terms with emotions, practice self-compassion

-Dr. MacBride says "Often, I ask my clients to consider their self-talk. If it's not something they would tolerate hearing from a friend, they shouldn't say it to themselves. It is critical that we speak to ourselves in ways consistent with how we expect others to treat us."

3. Seek professional support

This is not a one person journey. You are completely allowed to seek professional help

-Dr. Pausic says "Depending on the impact of the childhood criticism, it can be highly beneficial to speak with a mental health professional who can provide guidance and assess the impact your childhood has had on your current functioning. They can provide strategies and tools for you to move past negative self-images and improve your confidence." Support groups also are recommended and a good suggestion

4. Put it in the past and leave it there

While this is easier said than done, it's possible to do so

According to Dr. Preston, "However, when you focus your current and future life on past events, you are looking backward instead of forward. Look at what you want for the future. Look at what you want for your current life. Determine what you need to do to get to that picture you have for yourself."

Friday, April 11, 2025

Fun Facts About Kentucky

This state is just south of Ohio. In fact, all you have to do is cross the Ohio River and you're in Kentucky. This state is known as the Bluegrass State. It's because of the specific species of grass that grows here that has a bluish-green tinge to it. But there are quirky, interesting and unique facts about this state that even born and raised Kentuckians may not even know

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-The world's largest Toyota plant outside of Japan resides in Georgetown, Kentucky

-Kentucky was the first place that Thomas Alva Edison introduced the lightbulb to

-In Henderson, Kentucky, in 1887, the first Mother's Day was held

-In the Appalachian Region of Kentucky, bluegrass music got its start

-Bardstown, Kentucky is called the Bourbon Capital of the World for the massive number of bourbon distilleries, from Jim Beam in Clermont, Kentucky to Four Roses, Buffalo Trace, Maker's Mark, Wild Turkey and more

-The massively successful Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC) got its start in Corbin, Kentucky. It started out being sold out of a gas station, but when Harlan Sanders realized he was selling more chicken than gas, he decided to make a restaurant to sell his chicken. And the rest is history

-Kentucky is known as the "horse capital of the world"

-Cumberland Falls is one of the very few places in the US where you can witness a "moonbow"

https://library.louisville.edu/ekstrom/gov_states/kyfacts

Chewing gum was invented in Louisville, Kentucky in 1873 by a pharmacist named John Colgan

Cave City, Kentucky features a hotel whose rooms are shaped like Native American teepees. This Wigwam Village was built in 1937 by Frank A. Redford

Kentucky is home to more resort and state parks than any other state

https://www.movoto.com/guide/ky/kentucky-facts/

Duncan Hines, the creator of the famous cake mix named after himself, was born and raised in Bowling Green, Kentucky

There is a continuously burning underground coal fire in Breathitt County, Kentucky called the Lost Mountain Coal Mine. It's been abandoned for over 40 years and it's burning for nearly that long, if not longer

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https://www.visitlex.com/guides/post/14-fun-facts-about-central-kentucky/

Quite a few famous names come from Kentucky. Actors George Clooney, Johnny Depp, Josh Hutcherson, actress Jennifer Lawrence, boxer Muhammad Ali, bluegrass musician Ricky Skaggs, country musician Chris Stapleton, Loretta Lynn, Naomi Judd

Multiple big names in bourbon production are located in Kentucky. Woodford Reserve, Jim Beam, Four Roses, Buffalo Trace, Maker's Mark, Wild Turkey. They are part of the iconic "Bourbon Trail"

https://funworldfacts.com/kentucky-america/

Originally, the only inhabitants of Kentucky were the Cherokee, Chickasaw and Shawnee people. Now people in those tribes only make up 0.2% of Kentucky's population

Kentucky is the second largest producer of tobacco after North Carolina

Kentucky also holds the record for highest percentage of cigarette smokers, with 28.8% being men and 27.8% being women

This fact is not fun at all. It's actually scary and sad. It's known to locals as the Beverly Hills Fire. This nightclub, called The Beverly Hills Supper Club, burned to the ground on 5/28/1977, taking 165 lives with it, either directly at the club or as a result of their injuries. This club was located in the Kentucky city of Southgate, overlooking I-471. This fire was said to be one of the region's most devastating fires, thought to have been caused by faulty electrical wiring in a small room called the Zebra Room. Over 2000 people were crammed into the building that night, due to various events, such as musician Tommy Davidson performing in the Cabaret Room, the main large entertainment area. Or a local choral group holding a dinner there in one of the rooms on the second floor, along with several weddings and receptions taking place in the garden rooms outside. The building was well over safe capacity for people. And because of this fire, fire inspectors mandated that signs posting the capacity for rooms be posted in buildings along with updated fire safety

https://thefactfile.org/kentucky-facts/

Harrodsburg was the first permanent settlement in Kentucky. Established in 1774 as Fort Harrod, the settlement was named after the man who was supervising the construction, James Harrod

Kentucky is the second largest provider of hardwood after Florida. The reason being that 48% of Kentucky is covered with forests

Kentucky has a mountain. Called Black Mountain, it rises to a staggering height of 4,145 above sea level. To climb it, you must sign a waiver. It's located near Paducah, at the most southwestern tip of Kentucky

There are more than 11,000 elk roaming in Kentucky. This means Kentucky is home to the largest population of elk on the eastern coast of the United States

The best baseball museum outside of Cooperstown, New York is the Louisville Slugger Museum

Transylvania University in Lexington is extremely selective about the students they choose to admit. Chartered in 1780, it never grew into a massive university. It's considered to be the oldest university west of the Allegheny Mountains

1877 seen the highest railroad bridge over navigable water opening. The Nicholasville High Bridge in Jessamine County is 1,125 long and 275 feet

While Kentucky features many lakes, only three are natural. The rest are man made

Post-It Notes were invented in Kentucky by complete mistake. Spencer Silver, an employee at 3M, was trying to create an adhesive for use in aerospace technology in 1968. While his invention failed, it resulted in a new creation. The new result was that his adhesive didn't leave sticky residue on anything. Post-It Notes originated in Cynthiana, Kentucky

Kentucky bourbon was invented by Elijah Craig, a Baptist minister. He created the drink in 1785

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Clark County, Kentucky, the the neighbor to the east of Lexington, Kentucky, is said to be home of the popular snack Beer Cheese

In Lexington, Belle's Cocktail House is named after local madam Belle Brezing. She ran a high class brothel in the Victorian days, using the Mary Todd Lincoln home as her brothel. It's said she was the inspiration for Gone with the Wind character Belle Watling


Belle Brezing

The first African American congregation in Kentucky was established in 1790. It was the First African Baptist Church. It's also the third largest African American congregation in the US

-Lexington has a yearly tradition of reenacting the Michael Jackson video "Thriller." Around Halloween every year, people gather in the downtown area to recreate the famous dance scenes

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Louisville is home to the Kentucky Derby, one of the largest and most popular horse racing events in America. It's also one of the oldest continuously running events in America

Mammoth Cave is the longest running cave system in the world. It runs for 400 miles underneath Kentucky

The Kentucky Vietnam Veterans Memorial features a sundial that, in shadow, touches the name of each person on the date they died

All Chevrolet Corvettes since 1981 were manufactured in Kentucky

Because of climate change, Kentucky and neighboring states have seen an increase in tornadoes