Some Americans, not all of them, but some seem to think that when they dine abroad, the wait staff will have no problem doing this or that. This type of annoying behavior is what gives other Americans, those who actually do what they are supposed to do, a bad name. According to MSN.com writer Dana Wolk, here are 15 annoying habits made by Americans dining abroad
When travelling abroad, eating like the locals only heightens the experience of the trip. It allows you to meet the locals and even make a friend or two. Just remember not to act like the "ugly American tourist" and do what the locals do, and you'll be good to go. Like the old saying goes, "When in Rome, do as the Romans do". This means that you follow what everyone does. You follow the customs of those around you
1. Ignoring local customs
-Every country has customs on eating. For example, in some countries, tipping could be considered offensive. Take some time to learn about the local etiquette. This will show that you respect the local culture and only heightens your experience. Even ask locals what the local dining etiquette is. They will gladly tell you to avoid making errors
2. Requesting any sort of modification
-First things first, remember that you are in a different country. The food will be different. The wait staff may not change things for you. American tourists often ask for vast changes in food, which frustrates the wait staff. The way the food is made is highly important to the local culture. Instead of asking for the food to be modified, embrace the dish as it is served
3. Being loud
-You may as well scream from the heavens "I'm American!" Americans have a tendency to be loud talkers. In other countries, low speaking is the thing to do. It's often considered impolite and poor manners. Speak using your "indoor voice" so that a pleasant dining experience can be had by all around
4. Ignoring dress codes
-Some restaurants do have certain dress codes that must be adhered to. The fine dining restaurants are especially included. Casual or inappropriate attire might cause you to be prevented from entering. And it can even be seen as disrespectful. Do some research in to what the dress codes are and dress accordingly to show respect for the standards of the restaurant and local culture
5. Underestimating portion sizes
-America is the only country, it seems, where "bigger is better". Which is why America is also stereotyped as being fat. Because of the bigger portions offered, obesity is such a raging problem. Other countries don't believe in big portions. Other countries believe in smaller portions and it's part of the dining culture. Rather than moan about not having enough food, enjoy the small portions
6. Using phones at the table
-This is something some Americans seem to be adept at. Using your phone at the dining table. This can be seen as rude. Many cultures emphasize dining as a time for family, socializing and enjoying the meal with no distractions. Keep your phone on silent or completely off and don't use it unless needed. This will help keep you focused on conversing with your table mates and show respect to the restaurant
7. Assuming all menus will be in English
-Another thing to remember: you are in a foreign country!! Yes, it might be safe to assume that some may know English and that English might be offered as a language in those countries, but it's not safe to assume everyone will speak English. That goes for menus too. The menus at restaurants will be in that language. It would be wise to learn a few words or phrases in that language prior to traveling to that country. Even if you mispronounce it, the locals will be flattered you took the time to learn their language. When in doubt, ask the locals what the proper word is to avoid mispronouncing it again. Use a language translation app if your fluency is not up to scratch. This will show respect for the local language
8. Overtipping
-Tipping is something commonly done in America to show gratitude for good service. Not all countries believe in tipping because they already get good money from working. Some countries even consider tipping offensive. Overtipping can make some locals uncomfortable. In some countries, the tip is even included in the bill. Do some research into local tipping practices and adjust as such. This will show your appreciation in a culturally appropriate way
9. Expecting fast service
-Most people in America expect "right here, right now" service. You are in for a rude awakening overseas. Many countries see dining as a leisurely experience and draw it out for enjoyment. Be patient and enjoy the experience of dining overseas. Being patient will not only put you in the good graces of the locals, but it will show that you respect the cultural norms of that country and also allow you a good experience in dining abroad
10. Criticizing food
-Each country has its own unique delicacies and food. They might sound gross or disgusting to most Americans, but to the locals, it's an every day thing. Making negative comments about them is not only rude, but disrespectful. Remember, you are a guest of that country, and as such, you must eat what is offered or ordered. Don't focus on what you don't like. Instead, appreciate the diversity of the food. Try something that sounds interesting. Compliment the food when the server comes to you. This will show respect to the local culture and heighten your travel experience
11. Failing to respect queues
-Queues is a term typically used in Europe, to describe lines of people. In most foreign cultures, it's considered respectful to wait your turn in line. Cutting in front of someone or not following the proper etiquette is not only rude, but completely disrespectful. Wait your turn. Be patient. Follow the local customs on waiting in line. This helps maintain order and avoid chaos. It also shows respect for the local rules on waiting in line
12. Bringing outside food
-Bringing food from an outside restaurant to another restaurant is pointless. Why bring food from one place to another place that also serves food? It's straight impolite, inconsiderate. It can also violate health codes and disrupt the dining experience for others. If you're going to a restaurant, enjoy the food and drink offered there. This helps you respect the policies for the restaurant and helps keep the happy mood in the restaurant for others
13. Overusing condiments
-Using high amounts of condiments, in many countries, can be seen as disrespectful to the chef, who lovingly prepared the meal that sits before you. Try the food as it is before you prior to adding additional spice or sauce. This shows you respect the skills of the chef and allows you to enjoy the meal as intended
14. Not paying attention to dietary restrictions
-Restaurant staff can often find it frustrating or irritating when they encounter someone who has a dietary restriction, such as a food allergy, and it's only frustrating when they were not told in advance. If you have a dietary restriction, inform the restaurant in advance or talk privately with the staff upon arrival. This will help ensure that not only will your dietary restrictions be protected, but also the restaurant's ability to accommodate it
15. Ignoring local eating habits
-In some countries, there are specific habits for eating. They eat at certain times or use certain utensils. Not respecting these customs is rude and disrespectful. Take some time to learn the local customs and follow the same eating practices as others around you. This will not only show respect to the restaurant and staff and those around you, but will heighten your travel experience
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