Life is what happens when you are making other plans~ John Lennon
An eye for an eye will make the whole world blind~Gandhi
The time is always right to do what is right~ Martin Luther King Jr.


Monday, September 30, 2019

The Hookup Handbook by Kendall Ryan

This is the other book by Kendall Ryan. It's a sort of sequel to Boyfriend for Hire.
Summary
-Case Smith runs an exclusive male escort agency. He just lost one of his best escorts, Nic, to marriage. And now Case has other things on his mind. He has just agreed to write a tell all handbook on how to handle sex and intimacy. But there's just one problem-Case has been having issues getting erections. The only cure for that is thinking about the young woman brought in to help him with the book, a woman named Sienna, whose older brother is also an escort for this agency. Soon, the two are falling in love while struggling with how to tell her older brother Ryder about their relationship.

Payback by Amy Daws (Harris Brothers Book 6)

This is another book in the famous Harris Brothers series by Amy Daws. Instead of the Harris Brothers, it focuses on their young cousin Alice "Allie" Harris, who lives in Chicago
Summary
-Alice "Allie" Harris deserves better. After finding her stepsister in bed with her boyfriend, Allie wants payback. Big time. She manages to have a one-night stand with a hot South African footballer named Roan DeWalt, who plays on Bethnal Green FC, the same team as her English-born cousins Camden and Tanner. When she records the video, as a way of getting payback at her boyfriend, her stepsister somehow gets ahold of the video and sends it viral. Because of this, her angry cousins Camden, Tanner, Booker and Gareth are ready to rip Roan limb from limb until they see how much he truly cares for their little cousin Allie.

Sunday, September 29, 2019

Day 7-What You Hate Most

I hate a lot of things. Here are some...
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Racism
-I've always hated racism. Why do we all have to hate? If people think that racism died out in the 1960s, you're wrong. Racism is still alive and well and getting stronger every day. People want to hate others simply because they are different. Because they practice different religions. Because they love same sex people rather than opposite sex people. Because they speak different languages or are of a different ethnicity or come from a different country. It pains me to know that this still exists. It makes me cry when I hear just how brutal some people can be simply because someone is different. My mother and father may have been racist, but thankfully they raised me and my sister to be very open and tolerant of everyone. I am so thankful of that. If I going to not like someone, it's not going to be based on their skin color or race. It's going to be because they did something to me to make me lose my respect and trust for them.

Bullying
-As a victim of bullying herself, I can say I hate it. Me and my sister hate it. Our own father bullied us growing up, in addition to classmates doing it. We were made fun of for everything and it's no wonder we have trust issues. We don't trust anyone, which is why we are both single. We have self-esteem and self-confidence issues. We both worry about what someone is thinking about us.

Showing off a lot of $$$
-What I mean is when you hear about these musicians, athletes, actors and others with a lot of money buying all this expensive stuff, probably just to show off. If I had even half the money that these people had, I would spend on things that I needed. Like home improvements for the house me, my mom, stepdad and sister live in. I would take my family on a weeklong trip to Tahiti because my mom and stepdad love it there. I would donate some to charity. I would use it for good. It makes me sick to hear about how some of these people are blowing all their money on expensive crap they don't need. It's just like the lottery. These people win millions and billions and they spend, spend, spend and before they know it, they're living on the streets, homeless. It just pains me to think about how some people can spend like there's no tomorrow when I am working a regular job and can only dream of doing things sometimes. I can only dream of travelling the world, but it costs a lot of money and I have to save up a lot. Basic point-it's stupid to spend money like that. It's ridiculous!!

22 Benefits of Seeing Live Concerts

I think I shall be investing my time in concerts!!
1. Moving Around and Dancing
-There is nothing more enjoyable than dancing and singing your favorite songs by your favorite band while seeing them live. You will sing every word at the top of your lungs and dance like no one is watching. The upside? Exercise! You'll be burning calories in no time! Studies show that you can burn 400+ calories dancing at concerts!!

2. Stress Reduction
-Everyone has stressors in their life. Those people or things that just make you mad and angry. Musical events such as concerts reduce the amount of cortisol, known as the "stress hormone" from being released. According to a study from Imperial College in London, 117 applicants for an experiment involving listening to wind instruments noted that their blood pressure, heart rate were lower, their breathing rate reduced, thus inducing a calm feeling


3. Mood changer
-Everyone loves live music events. Did you know this can uplift your mood? It can put a smile on your face listening to those classic rock or metal guitars, the pounding drums, that deep soulful sound of the bass and other instruments on stage

4. Come Together/Join Together
-Not to reference a Beatles or Who song, but going to concerts allows a feeling of togetherness. You and hundreds of other fans can join together to sing the songs. Everyone is there to see their favorite musician and nothing makes you feel more warm and fuzzy inside than knowing that everyone is there with the same level of dedication

5. Constant concerts
-You don't have to hang around the big name venues. There are always concerts in parks going on, concerts at small, intimate venues going on. Heck, there is usually even music coming from people busking on the street

6. Improve your well-being
-According to a study made by Deakin University in Australia in 2016, studies found that people who attended concerts regularly are happier in their every day lives. It improves their mental health and that people who attended concerts with a boyfriend/girlfriend had improved relationships

7. Discover new bands
-Odds are high that when you go to see a band perform, they are going to have at least 1-2 support acts on prior. These are invaluable because you can discover new music from there. There is an undying and unlimited amount of music out there, just waiting to find new fans. Each day a group of people somewhere are forming bands hoping to get found. Support acts are great because they might be similar to the band you're there to see but their own take on things. For example, if you go to see Led Zeppelin and they have Greta Van Fleet opening, that would be interesting. It would be old school Zeppelin with new school Zeppelin because Greta Van Fleet's front man sounds like Robert Plant. Or going to see Iron Maiden and the opening acts being As Lions/The Raven Age/Lauren Harris. You get legendary Iron Maiden with soon to be legendary The Raven Age (like Metallica only British and with more aggression in their music for those unfamiliar with the name), Lauren Harris (like Joan Jett except British and hard rock instead of punk), As Lions (very melodic metal)
-And what's even better is that if you attend a concert and you're an aspiring musician yourself, like a beginner bassist/drummer/guitarist/vocalist, you can do some research into the various types of equipment out there, like Fender Precision Bass guitars/Fender Stratocasters, Ludwig/Paiste/Pearl drums and cymbals, etc.

8. You're My Inspiration
-Not to be pun-y and quote a Chicago song, but sometimes concerts provide that extra little push of inspiration for some to take up an instrument, such as the bass, guitar, drums, vocals, keyboard, etc. If you've ever wanted to play an instrument, attend a concert and it might just give you that get up and go to start down the wonderful path to music!!

9. Nonstop energy
-The chemical for happiness is dopamine. When you go to a concert, that chemical is just flat out flooding your body. You get giddy, excited, you can feel goosebumps and a general electric feeling of excitement

10. Pain killer
-Not to quote a Judas Priest song, but studies show that concerts and live music events can produce an anesthetic effect on you, thus reducing pain. This works because the chemicals responsible for happiness, dopamine and endorphins, are released, thus blocking pain

11. Reflection
-When you hear a song on your music device or in your car, it will take you back to when you first heard that song

12. Appreciation
-We all have stressers in our life. Those concerts are not only for going to see your favorite musician, they are also a chance to just forget about life for a while and have fun

13. Meet and Greets
-Some bands do meet and greets. This is the once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to meet your favorite musicians. Most if not all people would give their left arm to do so (I know I would with Judas Priest and Iron Maiden). Sometimes what makes it better is that if the band you are meeting and greeting has gotten you through some tough times in your life. Being able to get a photograph or an autograph from that musician is something you'll cherish forever!

14. Affordable Yet Fun
-While a vacation may be fun, it can also be expensive. So can a majority of concerts. Music festivals can also be expensive. You can have fun and check out local music events without destroying your bank account in the process

15. Meet new people
-Everywhere there are opportunities to meet new people. Concerts just so happen to be a big benefit for this one. When you're at a concert, you are surrounded by thousands of people already have at least one thing similar to you. So it's not rocket science to strike up a conversation and meet new people, make new friends.

16. Escape!
-While this is similar to the appreciation factor, doing the same thing day in and day out can really wear you down. Sometimes all you need is some loud music, some loud guitar, rumbling drums, calming bass and some good singing to bring you back to life

17. Something to look forward to
-Everyone looks forward to concerts, whether it be a big name artist, a tribute band or a local event. There is so much excitement and fun in planning things like this. Like if a concert you want to attend is out of town, there's the fun (and slight stress) of booking a hotel if it takes too long to get there, getting tickets, transportation, directions to the venue, etc. This excitement just keeps building and building until the event comes and then you're like a chain reaction approaching critical mass-you're ready to blow!!

18. The Nostalgia Effect
-There is an effect in science called the Nostalgia Effect. This occurs when you think back on memories that were enjoyable from your past and they become more and more enjoyable when you think about them.

19. A very unique experience
-Concerts are sometimes once-in-a-lifetime. You may or may never see that musician again. They are truly once-in-a-lifetime. It's very rare and very lucky to be able to see the same musician more than once. I can at least say that I've seen a few bands more than once. Deep Purple in 2017 and 2018 on their Infinite tour, both times at Riverbend Music Center. Judas Priest in 2015 at Rock on the Range on their 2015 Redeemer of Souls tour and in 2018 on their Firepower tour at Riverbend Music Center. Def Leppard in 2014 on their Kiss of Def tour at Riverbend Music Center and in 2018 on their anniversary tour at US Bank Arena. Kiss in 2014 on their Kiss of Def tour at Riverbend Music Center and in 2019 on their End of the Road tour at Nationwide Arena in Columbus, OH.

20. A personal connection with the artist
-Every DVD, whether it's of a film or concert or even tour, will provide little insights into the bands, the meanings behind the songs or whatever else. And...let's not forget. That before those musicians became household names, they were fans, just like you, raging and jamming to the musician whose concert they were attending. They were fans once upon a time, getting excited about going to see their favorite musician in concert.

21. Social Connections getting upgraded
-Odds are high that when you go to a concert, you'll be going with friends or family (I know for a fact that sounds exactly like me! I go with family to concerts!). This is a great way to get families involved with each other and it's safe. Plus, people watching alone is worth it! It's also safer and more exciting than a night at home playing board games or a night at the bar.

22. Ticket stubs!!
-Not every band will issue ticket stubs. Some have recently been going with electronic tickets or e-tickets. Where you need a phone with internet access to have a special code to get you in. I speak like this because this is exactly what I had to do to get me and family in to see Iron Maiden in August. Anyway, ticket stubs from concerts are a special keepsake that should be cherished. We all like to have those little reminders that we went to see such and such in concert and the memories with it. You can frame them, put them in a binder or a shoebox. No matter what, keep every little reminder of the concerts you went to in addition to the multitude of souvenirs you probably bought that night.

Twisted Sister Frontman Dee Snider Blasts NFL

That's right. You read this right. Twisted Sister frontman Dee Snider blasts NFL

It was decided that for this upcoming Super Bowl Halftime Show that the artist in question to perform would be Jennifer Lopez and Shakira. This is not sitting well with legendary Twisted Sister singer Dee Snider. He expressed his strong disapproval at this, saying that one of the biggest events of the year is, once again, ignoring hard rock and heavy metal, despite the fact that some of these artists' songs can be heard playing in the background

He tweeted "WTF!? @shakira and @jlo for this year's @nfl halftime show!? Once again the great heavy music that rocks the stadiums week after week, game after game is completely ignored. I guess we don't shake our ass enough!!"

These words echo what he tweeted earlier after this year's performance by Maroon 5. He listed ten songs from legendary acts like Queen, AC/DC, Guns 'N' Roses, Twisted Sister that get crowds on their feet and their fists pumping. But these household names get overlooked when it comes to the halftime show.

He tweeted again "Hey @NFL! Your go-to songs at EVERY game are metal. 'Enter Sandman,' 'Cum On Feel the Noise,' 'Thunder[struck],' 'Crazy Train,' 'We're Not Gonna Take It,' 'We Are the Champions,' 'Final Countdown,' 'I Wanna Rock,' 'We Will Rock You,' 'Welcome to Jungle.' NONE of those bands have EVER played half-time show!"

Sunday, September 22, 2019

Day 6-Something You've Always Had a Problem With

This will be interesting
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I've always had issues with self-confidence and self-esteem. Me and my sister have. Growing up with a set of parents like ours will do that. Me and my sister had unusual parents. What I mean is our biological father bullied us. He called us names, made fun of us, stole from us, did everything to his own kids that you are not supposed to do. He stole the small cross I got for my first communion and pawned it for cigarette money. He would steal the tip money and paycheck money my sister earned from her job in an ice cream shop for cigarettes. He would call my sister gorilla arms or orangutan arms because she had hair on her arms that would remind you of an ape. Because of that, she took to shaving her arms and had to hide it from our mother. She noticed and my sister was hesitant to tell her. She spilled the beans and our mom nearly killed our dad for that. She yelled at him something fierce. There's a lot he did and said to us that we were afraid to tell our mom. Mostly it was out of fear of retaliation or the simple fact he would yell at us and punish us, telling us "You two never keep anything secret!" or "What happens in this house stays in this house!" As for me, he would call me Billy Bass Lips, Jagger Mouth because I happen to have very full lips, like Mick Jagger. It used to make me so mad. When I was in college and he was home, he would sometimes offer to drive me to school. This was only after I said I was leaving to catch the bus and he said "Don't do that. I'll drive you." Every time he did this, I walked into class 10 minutes before it was due to start, instead of already being up there at least a half hour to an hour before it started. He made me almost late to class each time he "offered" to drive. This was because he was playing a video game and didn't want to stop. I had to keep nagging him just to get his response. The only reason we didn't move in with our mom and stepdad is we wanted to finish school. We didn't have to worry about leaving friends behind; we both had hardly any.

When we were younger, if we said we wanted to go into a certain field later on, our dad would tell us, something to the effect of "No matter how hard you work at it, it'll never happen." Or "It's useless having dreams because they never come true" or "You two are better off just working some 9-5 job just to earn money and pay bills, like NORMAL people do". When we were younger, my sister wanted to be a firefighter. She was obsessed with the movie Backdraft and she read anything and everything about the firefighting industry. I, however, wanted to go into medicine. So, essentially, we both wanted to be first responders of a sort. Our dad told us that both jobs would be dangerous and costly to go into. He told me that I was better off not doing that because I would be in school forever and then I would have to decide a specialty in nursing or medicine and even then I'd be debt until I'm dead. He told my sister that she better change her mind; firefighting is dangerous and life threatening. She knew this and didn't care; she loved the saving people and helping people aspect of it. Same goes with me and medicine. Suffice to say, you don't say this to your own kids when they already are planning their careers. Suffice to say, we are not in the first responder industry; we are both working jobs just to pay bills and having to take the simple joy in doing things like concerts or vacations. To be honest, I think our dad hated us. I think he thought of us as being an obstacle to whatever job he wanted to do.

As for our biological mother, she is opinionated to the point of brutality. She will be brutally honest with you and if it hurts your feelings, oh well, suck it up buttercup is what you will be told. She thinks that people need to be able to take the truth and not be a baby about it. Truth hurts is something she seems to live by. I have always had the feeling, and my sister shares this same feeling too, that our mom blames us for keeping her from going to medical school to become a nurse.

Saturday, September 21, 2019

Day 5-Something You Miss

This will be short
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I miss my grandmother. My grandmother was named Rose Whetstein. She's my stepdad's mom. Even though I know she's our grandmother only through marriage, she was more of a grandmother to me and my sister than my biological father's mother was. My biological father's mother treated us horribly. My stepdad's mom Rose was goofy, but we loved her. She was a probably stereotypically devout Italian Catholic who started each day and ended each day with saying her prayers off heavily worn cards. She loved St. Francis, the patron saint of animals. Her backyard was a regular menagerie of animals. She had bumblebees from the various beautiful flowers planted, at least three or four dogs over the course of her life, one named Pooker who was a Collie-type dog, another named Pudgy who was a mutt, one named Bandit who was a Blue Tickhound-type dog and finally Abby, an Australian Shepherd-Collie mix. All had their own various personalities. Bandit thought he was human and ate as such. He ate before everyone else. When my stepdad was growing up, he said that his mother always fed the dogs first, claiming "they can't feed themselves!" And this extended over to the house she lived and died in, in Delhi Township, where me, my mom and stepdad and sister live. When Bandit first came home, we couldn't go over because Bandit didn't like kids. It was because this trio of kids across the street would torture him. When we showed Bandit how much we loved dogs, by giving him endless belly rubs and ear scratches, he began to trust us and starting using his cute doggy powers to win us over. It was sad, losing him to an infection. But, both me and my sister considered her more of a grandmother to us than our biological grandmother. Our grandmother Rose would always hint at food by saying or asking "Are you hungry?" "Did you eat yet?" My sister would laugh and say "Yeah, I'm hungry. What would you like?" But, all in all, me and my sister miss our grandmother

Friday, September 13, 2019

Travelling: The Next Great Confidence Builder

We all may or may not have issues with confidence. Some are happy go lucky, confidence off the charts. Others may be more reticent, shy, not a lot of confidence. Did you know that travelling can build up that confidence? Here's how.

1. You develop better financial skills
-When you have those destinations in mind, you tend to start saving up. You become more financially savvy. Everyone knows that to travel, you need a lot of $$$$. If you can budget yourself on vacation, odds are high that you can budget yourself back home. When you're away on vacation, it's probably a knee jerk reaction to buy anything that looks cool. The most important thing is to know how much money you are going to need to survive the trip. If you can carefully manage the money you have to be able to get everything you need for your trip, you will be good and you can transfer these skills into everyday life. One piece of advice-when travelling through Europe, Australia, Asia, there are no such things as "all inclusive". This term refers to something that a lot of tropical destinations engage in. It means everything is paid for. The only money you bring is for tips and souvenirs.
2. Learning a foreign language
-Everyone at one point or another in their life has been interested in learning a foreign language. I know I have and I know I am. It's said that through learning a foreign language you are looking at the world through a new set of eyes. Taking a class on foreign languages is great, but what is even greater is talking to the locals, engaging in conversation with them and asking them what words mean in their language. They will be more than flattered that you are taking an interest in their culture and language and be more than willing to help. Learning a new language helps you learn how interact with your surroundings in new ways. You will have an increased capacity for action and doing things and as such, you can tackle challenges easier
3. Independence
-There is a vast world of difference between travelling as a group and going solo. When going solo, you essentially have to become a jack-of-all-trades, a sort of Bear Grylls-type person to survive. Not to the extent of Bear Grylls, but you will need the skills necessary to solve problems should they come your way. Knowing how to do basics such as sew, cook, fix a bike, camp or even drive will boost your confidence ten fold and let you know you can survive

4. Meeting new people
-For some, the shy people mostly, meeting new people is a daunting task. What do you say to start the conversation? Unless your itinerary is camping in a wooded area, odds are high that you will be meeting other people. It's mind blowing the way humans interact with other humans. Anthropologists would have a field day studying humans and their interactions with other humans, rofl. If you are travelling to a country where English is not the primary language, it could look like a jumbled mess. It'll be almost to the point of frustration to reach some point of understanding between you and the other person, but the reward is worth going for. Getting to know others and their way of life shows that person you are taking interest in their culture. Most if not all people are flattered when people take interest in their culture. Talking to others and meeting new people can help you recognize the sensitivities and desires of other people. You can even have the confidence to help change someone's life for the better. And in the process, even make a new friend or two

Day 4-Something You Wish You Could Have, But Don't

This will be interesting...
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Beauty
-I really wish I could be beautiful. Sometimes I feel like I am the ugly sister of Georgia May Jagger because of my full lips. My own biological father always laughed and joked around about my full lips, calling me things like Jagger Mouth, saying I had a mouth like Mick Jagger. I wish I was beautiful. I wish someone would tell me so without having to feel compelled to do so. I've spent so much of my life being told I was ugly that I am to the point where I almost, literally, see ugly in the mirror looking back

Beanie Babies
-This one is my favorite. I wish I had a lot of Beanie Babies. I think they are so cute!! I love hugging them after a hard day at work. The only downside is room to put them all. There's a lot of them that are cute and a lot of them I want!! I already have a multitude of them and yet I always look for more. Among them my favorites are Floyd the Frog, a cute little bright green overly fuzzy frog with bright green eyes. Another of my favorites is Cornstalk the Cow because I love cows. Another of my favorites that I own is Freckles the Leopard.

This one is called Angus the West Highland Cow. Of course I want it; it's on my wish list. It's a cow!!!

Sunday, September 8, 2019

Day 3-Your Definition of Love

I've never been the object of affection from the opposite sex nor have I ever had a boyfriend or gone out on a date. So for this one, I am truly unsure of what I could say
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I suppose the only things I could say would be that my definition of love is finding someone who appreciates you for who you are. Someone who has at least one or two or more things in common. Someone who gets your way of thinking, makes you laugh until it hurts, is there for you when you are sad. Someone who can not only be your true love, but your best friend. Sometimes best friends up making the best relationships. My mom and stepdad are a great example. They started out as friends but then fell for each other and are going strong 13 years later.

I suppose that if love is truly meant for me, I wouldn't mind meeting someone who has something in common with me, makes me feel good about myself without having some sort of ulterior motive, someone I can make feel good about themselves, someone to laugh with, to cry with. Someone to be the rock of strength when I need it and for me to do the same in return.

Saturday, September 7, 2019

Day 2- Ways to Get Into Your Heart

I've never been in love or been the subject of a crush. So, for this one, I am unsure. But I'll give it a shot

Also, I'm the kind of person who usually ends up keeping people at arm's length until I feel I can trust them. I trust no one unless I feel that person is legit. Over the years, I've had so much issue trusting people because when I do trust them, they let me down or they burn me and that makes me lose faith in humanity.
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Dogs
-I love love love dogs!! Dogs are one surefire way to get to me. I want to spoil dogs rotten with love. I've always loved the big dogs, like Chocolate/Black/Labrador/Golden Retrievers, German Shepherds, Irish/Russian Wolfhounds, Irish Setters, Great Danes, Mastiffs, St. Bernard's, Australian Cattle Dogs, Australian Collies. As for little dogs, the only little dogs I love are Corgis, Pugs, English Bulldogs. If someone wants me to like them, they have to be passionate about their love of animals. They have to love animals and know how to treat them with love and respect. Anyone who hates animals or abuses them should stay off my radar!

And as a side point, I love dogs because you never know what they're thinking or are going to do. They can do some of the funniest things on the planet and they always know how to cheer you up. Not only that, they sometimes have the funniest expressions on their faces. Another side point: I know it's cliched that I am a girl and girls are suckers for dogs, but I just love their little furry faces. I just want to cuddle with them and comfort them during storms


 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Concerts
-I'm a huge music nut. I am almost constantly listening to music. If someone wants me to like them, it's easy. Buy tickets to one of my favorite bands in concert.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Travelling
-I love to travel. I love the excitement of packing and knowing I'm going to a new place. I'm eager to see the sights, learn the history and meet new people.

Monday, September 2, 2019

Day 1- List of Your Favorite Things

This is going to be a long list, rofl!!!
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Music
-I LOVE MUSIC! I am constantly listening to it, discovering new artists if I can and going to concerts, either me and my sister or me, my sister, stepdad and mom. At least two of the tattoos I have are music-related. One is on my left shoulder. It's of music notes surrounding the quote "Let It Be". It's for both my love of music, the motto in life I live by and my love of Beatles music. I'll be having another music tattoo installed on the inside of my left calf on 9/7/19. It'll be of a Fender Precision bass guitar next to an amplifier. This one will also be for my love of music and the bass guitar being my favorite instrument. It's so underrated. Even though I don't play this instrument, I still think it's pretty cool. How often do you hear about kids aspiring to be a bass guitarist? Very rare. It's more often kids want to shred on a guitar like Eddie Van Halen, Trent Reznor or James Hetfield

Cute English guys
-What can I say? I know it's cliched that I'm an American girl falling for English accents on guys, but it's a very handsome accent. It's very formal, classy and just straight sexy coming from a guy, rofl. That must explain why most of the romance novels I read, both in e-book and paper form, surround some aspect of Britain, rofl!!

-And as for male beauty, I am of the firm mindset that everyone sees beauty differently and I happen to look at some guys and say they still look handsome for their ages, despite the fact that some think people have aged like sour milk. I look at some guys and think they are still handsome for their age, despite gray hair, wrinkles or other marks. Some people question why and how I could think some guys are attractive when others think they look like crap. Like the old saying: "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". But, according to some, my opinion of beauty is looking at screwed up in the rearview mirror


Richard Hammond (Top Gear. Known as "The Hamster" because of his short height and hyperactive personality)
I love watching Top Gear because I learn so much about cars and laugh until it hurts because the three presenters always sabotage one or the other's car. No man is safe on that show from pranks. I think a lot of women probably watch this show only because they think Richard Hammond is cute. Sadly, me and my sister are among them, but we also watch the show because it's good, funny and you learn about cars!
Rick Savage (Def Leppard bassist and backing vocalist)
I think he's still handsome for his age. From interviews I've seen, he is such a kind, loving person. No ego whatsoever! And for him to battle Bell's Palsy and come back from it, good for him! I'm happy to hear that he has beaten it!!


Dave Murray (Iron Maiden lead guitarist, 1975-present)
I love his personality. He's not arrogant at all. He's a rare breed of Rockstar-no ego, just kind, down to earth, friendly. That's why he's my favorite. No ego!! He seems like such a warm, loving person


Bruce Dickinson (Iron Maiden vocalist, 1982-1992, 2000-present).
I read his book, What Does This Button Do? An Autobiography and it was good. I love his little random thoughts in there. I think he is still handsome for his age, despite the long gray hair kept back in a ponytail. For being 60-something years old and still be able to move around and sing like he does, is amazing! I also find it funny that he speaks his mind, no matter what!!

Steve Harris (Iron Maiden bassist/founding member, 1975-present)
IDK why people say this man is arrogant. Opinionated? Yes. Demanding? Definitely. But there's a method to his madness. He's in a band that is at the top tier of the metal world, a band he created! And he's trying to keep it going with a good bunch of guys. So if to keep it going he has to be demanding and opinionated, then so be it!


Glenn Hughes (Deep Purple bassist/backing vocalist 1974-1976, Trapeze (early band), Black Country Communion and California Breed (both had him on bass and vocals)
Despite his odd choices in clothing, he's still pretty handsome. Especially the rough time he had trying to get off drugs


Glenn Tipton (Judas Priest guitarist/backing vocalist)
I think he's still attractive for his agf=e
 
 
 
Reading
-I am constantly reading. Sometimes, I'll read and re-read books that I've read hundreds or dozens of times. IDK why I do this; I know how they'll end, but for some reason, I like to think that some of the books I own and read show a little of my personality, show who I am. IDK why, but when I was younger, like most kids, I hated reading. I thought it was boring. Until I grew up and found things I wanted to read about. Now all I do in my spare time is read. I'll read and re-read the same books sometimes because they're just that good. Sometimes I'll read books over because I'm in the mood for them. I just got done reading On the Edge: My Story by Richard Hammond. Still, no matter how many times I read it, a great book!
My Family
-They may drive me crazy, but I love them dearly and would not have it any other way. We are crazy. What other group of people constantly get on the topic of Monty Python and The Holy Grail? Or My Family, the popular, comedic BBC program that my own family seems to eerily mirror just a bit too close?
 
-Let me tell you a little bit about my family. My sister Jessica, aka Jessie, is your definite straight punk rocker. Black is her preferred clothing color, leading my mom, Brenda and stepdad Greg, to dub her either Ritchie Blackmore or Johnny Cash. She loves reading romance novels, mostly surrounding biker clubs or handsome tattooed men. She works for US Bank as a mortgage default counselor, meaning she helps people get on payment plans to pay their mortgage. My mom Brenda works for an independent loan company called Stockton Mortgage. She works with TPO (third party originators) to help people get loans for things. She loves reading when she has the time. She reads biker-related novels and tattooed-related novels like my sister, but my mom reads the tattooed guy novels for an entirely different reason than my sister. She loves to clean and cook, with us right there helping her. She can get on me and my sister's nerves sometimes, being strongly opinionated as she is and not holding back. She can be downright brutal in her opinions, but we have to love her. She's our mother. She and our stepdad Greg have been together for nearly 13 years, but friends for over 20. Our stepdad Greg, I swear, must have been British in a previous life. Most of his favorite musicians are British, he watches the English Premier League football (soccer), at least 2-3 of the TV shows he watches are British. But. because of him, me and my sister discovered the shows My Family and Top Gear. We discovered bands like Deep Purple, Led Zeppelin, Eve 6, Green Day, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Foreigner, Bad Company, Aerosmith, AC/DC, Genesis, Phil Collins, Georgia Satellites and more.

Travelling
-I want to travel so badly. But the places I dream of going to cost an exorbitant amount of money. London, for starters, you have to know how to eat, drink and stay local like the locals do. Ask the locals the best and cheapest place to stay, eat and drink. What are the best places to go for not a lot of money? Anyway, I want to travel to so many amazing places. The only way to do that is to work hard and earn a lot of $$$$$$
Sydney, Australia
 
Japan
 
London, England

30 Day Challenge

I know these types of things are cliched to some, but I think they are fun. They open people up and get them really talking. Sometimes, all it takes is some common ground to really fire up potential friendships.
https://never3nding.tumblr.com/post/2660644142/tumblr-30-day-challenge

Sunday, September 1, 2019

September Birthdays

Since it's September, time to say Happy Birthday!!

Jeremy Irons
-Birth name: Jeremy John Irons
-DOB: 9/19/1948
-Where: Cowes, Isle of Wight, England
-On June 1, 1995, he was ticketed for speeding at 97 mph on his BMW motorcycle. His license was suspended for three months
Avril Lavigne
-Birth name: Avril Ramona Lavigne
-DOB: 9/27/1984
-Where: Belleville, Ontario, Canada
-Known for her pink and black color scheme
Freddie Mercury
-Birth name: Farrokh Bomi Bulsara
-DOB: 9/5/1946
-Where: Stone Town, Zanzibar, Tanzania
-DOD: 11/24/1991
-Where: Kensington, London, England (AIDS)
-Famous for his overbite, he did not get corrective surgery out of fear it would take away his abilities to sing as he did
Harriet Walter
-Birth name: Harriet Mary Walter
-DOB: 9/24/1950
-Where: London, England
-Her uncle is famed actor Sir Christopher Lee
Ian McShane
-Birth name: Ian David McShane
-DOB: 9/29/1942
-Where: Blackburn, Lancashire, England
-His father was famed Manchester United footballer Harry McShane
Yao Ming
-DOB: 9/12/1980
-Where: Shanghai, China
-His mother was a captain on the Chinese national women's basketball team

David McCallum
-Birth name: David Keith McCallum
-DOB: 9/19/1933
-Where: Glasgow, Scotland
-In his spare time, he enjoys working with computers and golf
Tom Hardy
-Birth name: Edward Thomas Hardy
-DOB: 9/15/1977
-Where: Hammersmith, London, England
-He battled with addiction to alcohol and crack cocaine, but has been clean and sober since 2003
Joe Perry
-Birth name: Anthony Joseph Pereira
-DOB: 9/10/1950
-Where: Lawrence, Massachusetts
-Is a founding member of the band Aerosmith
Colin Firth
-Birth name: Colin Andrew Firth
-DOB: 9/10/1960
-Where: Grayshott, Hampshire, England
-Has played a character named Mr. Darcy in four films: 1995's Pride and Prejudice, 2001's Bridget Jones's Diary, 2004's Bridget Jones: The Edge of Reason and 2016's Bridget Jones's Baby
Jeff Foxworthy
-Birth name: Jeffrey Marshall Foxworthy
-DOB: 9/6/1958
-Where: Atlanta, Georgia
-Known for his "You Might Be a Redneck If..." one liners. Such as "You might be a redneck if the UFO Hotline limits you to one call per day"
David Coverdale
-DOB: 9/22/1951
-Where: Saltburn-by-the-Sea, Yorkshire, England
-Sang for Deep Purple from 1973-1976