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Thursday, January 23, 2025

Home Alone 2: Lost in New York (1992)

It's happened again. Kevin McCallister (Maculay Culkin) has, once again, been left behind by his family. In their haste to make a flight to Florida for the Christmas holidays, Kevin gets his father mixed up with another gentleman who has the same type of coat his father wears, not realizing this other gentleman is bound for New York City, the Big Apple. Kevin quickly finds out he's in the wrong city when looking at the skyline of New York.

Summary

-During a Christmas holiday vacation to Miami, Kevin accidentally boards a plane to New York and encounters the same burglars he met last Christmas. This time, they're planning on robbing a toy store on Christmas Eve








Cast

-Macaulay Culkin: Kevin

-John Heard: Peter

-Catherine O'Hara: Kate

-Joe Pesci: Harry

-Daniel Stern: Marv

-Devin Ratray: Buzz

-Hillary Wolf: Megan

-Maureen Elizabeth Shay: Linnie

-Michael C. Maronna: Jeff

-Gerry Banman: Uncle Frank

-Terrie Snell: Aunt Leslie

-Kieran Culkin: Fuller

-Tim Curry: Concierge

-Dana Ivey: Desk Clerk

-Rob Schneider: Bellboy

-Brenda Fricker: Pigeon Lady

Did You Know?

-Due to the cold temperatures in New York, several cameras literally froze during filming

-Director Chris Columbus stated that the production crew had spent considerable money on fake snow for Central Park. Then, New York had a blizzard with real snow

-The phone number given for the Plaza Hotel in the movie is the hotel's actual phone number

-This was the first film shot at the famous Carnegie Hall in 30 years

-After completing this movie, Chris Columbus wanted to start another film. His wish was granted when he received the script for what would become 1993's Mrs. Doubtfire

-When Harry and Marv are talking at the ice rink, the ice rink is Wollman Rink in Central Park

-The scenes that were supposed to be in Florida were actually shot in California

-At the time, Donald Trump owned the Plaza Hotel and insisted on being given a cameo in exchange for the crew film at the hotel. Director Chris Columbus considered editing out the cameo, but ran it against a test audience, who loved it

-The scene where Marv gets electrocuted with the sink made director Chris Columbus laugh so hard he couldn't yell "Cut!", even after Stern collapsed onto the floor

-The children who appeared in the toy store scene were allowed to take home a favorite toy as part of their pay

-The scene where Kevin goes to the pool was shot at the Four Seasons Hotel in Chicago, Illinois because the Plaza Hotel doesn't have a swimming pool

-The bird woman, played by Brenda Fricker, was inspired by the "old bird woman" from 1964's Mary Poppins

-Real medical professionals were asked for their advice on Harry and Marv's injuries. They stated that three to four bricks to the face would cause "at best, brain damage, at worst, death."

-While out sightseeing, Kevin visits the once iconic World Trade Center. When the movie aired after 9/11, his visit to the World Trade Center was removed out of respect for those who perished in the terrorist attack. In 2018, the scene where he visits this building was restored

-Duncan's Toy Chest was loosely based on the flagship store of iconic toy store F.A.O. Schwartz

-The key icons on the uniform for concierge Mr. Hector (Tim Curry) are for the Les Clefs d'Or USA. This organization is for professional hotel concierges and is considered extremely difficult to get membership to. Earning these gold keys is a respected privilege, given only to the true professional, one dedicated to providing the highest level of service to the guests and the hotel in which they are employed. There are other requirements as well, which can be found on their website

-The turtle dove figures were created by artist John Perry, who is known for his sculptures of sea life

-There was a theory going around that Robert De Niro was one of the officers arresting Harry and Marv in Central Park. It's not Robert De Niro. It's an actor named William Dambra who plays the officer who fires a shot to scare the pigeons away and arrest Harry and Marv

-In the scene where Harry and Marv are stealing money from the toy chest, Marv says "Happy Hanukkah" to himself. In real life, Daniel Stern is Jewish

-The gun Harry pulls out at the end is a police issue Colt Police Positive

-When Mr. Hector (Tim Curry) attempts to find Kevin in the hotel room, Kevin uses an inflatable Bozo the Clown to fool the concierge into thinking someone is in the shower. This spooks Mr. Hector into leaving. Ironically, it was Tim Curry who played Pennywise the Clown in the 1990 film adaptation of Stephen King's It

-The song "Cool Jerk" by The Capitols is the only non-Christmas song featured in this movie

-Originally the role of the Pigeon Lady was to go to Estelle Getty. Unfortunately, she couldn't do the role, as it would conflict with her schedule on The Golden Girls, playing Sophia Petrillo

-Near the beginning of the movie, Uncle Frank takes Fuller's cola and tells him the rubber sheets are packed. This indicates that Fuller is still suffering from bedwetting

Friday, October 25, 2024

Questions and Answers for Those Contemplating Their First Trip to Hawaii Pt. II

Hawaii is one of those destinations that seems to be most people's travel bucket list. Unlike the "all inclusive" resorts commonly found in the tropics, where the only money you bring is for tips and souvenirs, Hawaii is somewhere that you pay for everything. According to Hawaii Travel for Kids, here are 36 questions asked to them when traveling to the Aloha state where palm trees sway

19. Will I need to rent a car?

-Unless Waikiki is one of the destinations you're staying in, renting a car would be advisable just so you can get from place to place. Rideshare programs such as Uber and Lyft are not common here, mostly on the mainland. The public transportation, usually buses, are reliable but not incredibly time-efficient. The recommended place would be Discount Hawaii Car Rental. They get deep discounts from places like Alamo, Dollar, Thrifty, Avis, Enterprise, Budget, Payless

20. Are things expensive in Hawaii?

-YES! Because everything has to be shipped in from the mainland or elsewhere, such as food, gas and everyday essentials, the cost of items here is significantly higher. Instead of paying $3 to $4 for a gallon of milk, here you'll be paying closer to $6 to $8. Another reason for the high cost is that people often book pricey excursions while here. If you choose to do an excursion, such as a helicopter ride, snorkeling or boat tour, swim with dolphins or a luau, it's going to cost you. The most recommended way to cut costs is to shop at the local farmer's markets and roadside fruit stands. Not only will you save money, but you'll also be supporting local businesses

21. Is tipping in Hawaii necessary?

-The answer is yes! It's customary to tip in Hawaii. This shows that you appreciate the hard work of people. You can tip hotel staff, restaurant staff, tour guides, photographers, etc

22. Are there restrictions to buying alcohol?

-In Hawaii, you must be at least 21 years of age to buy alcoholic drinks. You also must be this age to consume alcoholic drinks legally. There are some "dry" towns, towns that don't sell liquor at all, such as Laie. And in other cases, some retail liquor stores stop selling at 11:00 pm. And locations that serve liquor stop serving at 2 am

23. Is there a currency for Hawaii?

-No. Since Hawaii is part of the United States, the US Dollar is also the currency in Hawaii. There are currency exchanges located throughout the islands if you are from another country and need to exchange your currency for US dollars. You can also head to the Bank of Hawaii to exchange out your currency for US dollars

24. What is the average temperature in Hawaii?

-Year-round, Hawaii is in the 70s-80s. During the winter months, the temperatures can go to about 60s, especially during the evening hours. During the summer, it can shoot up to the high 80s during the day. The summer months see a lot of dry weather while the winter months it gets a bit rainy. There are also tropical storm or hurricane watches as well

25. How long is the flight to Hawaii?

-It all comes down to where you are coming from. Most flights from the West Coast are only about 5-6 hours long. But, if you are coming from Chicago, it's 11 hours and if you're coming from the East Coast, it's 14-15 hours

26. Are there sharks in Hawaii?

-Yes. You can bet there are sharks in Hawaii. There is said to be at least 40 different species of sharks living in Hawaii. These can include whitetip reef sharks, great white sharks, sandbar sharks, scalloped hammerhead sharks, and sometimes even tiger sharks. If you're feeling particularly brave, you can book an excursion on Oahu to go swimming with sharks! You can get an up close nose to nose dive with sharks!

27. Are shark attacks common in Hawaii?

-While it might be common to be fearful of shark attacks in Hawaii, there are not as many shark attacks in Hawaii as people think. The Division of Aquatic Resources states that in the years of 1980-2020, there have only been an estimated 164 shark attacks, with only 10 of those resulting in fatalities. Some useful tips for avoiding encounters with these watery predators include: don't swim at night (night time is their hunting time. They can see well in low light), don't swim in murky water (again, their vision far outstrips human vision), don't urinate in the water (strangely, just like blood, urine attracts sharks. That tells them prey is nearby)

28. Are there snakes in Hawaii?

-The answer is technically yes. Although there are no snakes native to Hawaii. It's completely illegal to own them as pets. Hawaii does have 4 brown tree snakes that can assist in training dogs to detect snakes that enter Hawaii. The reason it's illegal to bring snakes into Hawaii is because they have no natural predators and they can cause a lot of issues for the environment. In 2013, two species of snakes were found in Hawaii: the Island Blind Snake and Yellow-Bellied Sea Snake. The Island Blind Snake is a harmless species the size of an earthworm. The Yellow-Bellied Sea Snake is rare, but highly poisonous

29. What language is spoken in Hawaii?

-There are two official languages spoken here: English and Hawaiian. There are language immersion schools where people can learn the language of Hawaiian. Many locals also speak "pidgin", which is Hawaiian Creole language. It originated on the pineapple plantations and uses words from the languages of Korean, Portugese, Japanese, Cantonese and Hawaiian. There are also other foreign languages spoken here. They include: Chinese, Japanese, Spanish, Tagalog. Japanese is especially common here since Hawaii is so close to Japan

30. Where is Pearl Harbor?

-This is one of the most popular tourist destinations in Hawaii. The Pearl Harbor Monument is located on the island of Oahu, just a few miles from the Honolulu International Airport. Here, you can find the USS Arizona, the USS Battleship Missouri, the USS Bowfin Submarine and the Pearl Harbor Aviation Museum. When people go to Pearl Harbor, it's to not only see the monument, but also pay their respects. If you want to see everything Pearl Harbor has to offer, you'll need at least a full day to do that

31. Am I allowed to take fruit home?

-To an extent. You are only allowed to bring back packaged fruit that has gone through an inspection by agriculture and is approved for transport. That means boxed pineapple. You can find this at the grocery stores or airport. And, as long as they have been agriculturally inspected and approved, you can bring home coconuts. But don't think about bringing home fresh Hawaiian fruits, such as mango, lychee, papaya, lilikoi or guava. These might contain disease and pests that can do damage to the delicate agriculture of the mainland. TSA will tell you when you arrive that damage can be done to the agriculture because of the possible pests or disease

32. Can I bring pets to Hawaii?

-It's legal to bring cats and dogs to Hawaii, but there's a catch. They must do an extensive quarantine of 30 days minimum. It's also costly. The only logical conclusion would be that if you are moving to Hawaii, then you can bring your pets or visiting there for some time. If you are craving some time with a furry friend and you just so happen to be visiting Kauai, head to the local Humane Society and borrow a shelter dog for the day. Not only will you get some time with a cuddly dog, this helps the community and helps bring sunshine into a dog's day

33. Can you still get leis at the airport?

-The answer is no. It's been years since people danced the hula and offered leis at the airport for arriving tourists. You can pre-arrange a lei greeting party ahead of time for you. It'll need to be paid for ahead of time

34. Does Hawaii have all-inclusive resorts?

-To an extent. The Hana-Maui Resort offers dining packages to make vacations all inclusive. Unfortunately, other than that, there are no all-inclusive resorts here in Hawaii. The resorts in Hawaii are just as stunning as the all-inclusive places, with plenty of activities to keep everyone occupied and happy. You'll just need to pay separately

35. Is it legal to take a lava rock home?

-The answer is NO! NO! NO! NO! It cannot be emphasized more strongly enough that it's completely illegal to take lava rock home. It's not only disrespectful to the Hawaiian culture, but it would make you an irresponsible tourist. If everyone who visited the Hawaiian Islands took home lava rock, there would be none left. This "do not take home" rule also applies to coral, sea glass, shells and sand and all other natural elements in Hawaii. Simply leave them there so other people can enjoy them

36. Is there a royal palace in Hawaii?

-Absolutely!!! The famous and iconic Iolani Palace in Honolulu is where King Kalakua once resided. He built the famous palace in 1882 and lived there until 1893. It once used to throw fancy parties and even had electricity before the White House! In 1959, when Hawaii became a US state, Iolani Palace was used as a capitol building. It was 1978 when the palace became a museum highlighting Hawaiian culture and history. During a trip to Oahu, make it a point to visit Iolani Palace. They offer guided tours and it's a perfect way to learn about Hawaiian culture in such a way that school never did. Not only that, but those familiar with the newly remade television show Hawaii Five-O will recognize the building as being the headquarters for the Five-O task force

Questions and Answers for Those Contemplating Their First Trip to Hawaii Pt. I

Hawaii is one of those destinations that seems to be most people's travel bucket list. Unlike the "all inclusive" resorts commonly found in the tropics, where the only money you bring is for tips and souvenirs, Hawaii is somewhere that you pay for everything. According to Hawaii Travel for Kids, here are 36 questions asked to them when traveling to the Aloha state where palm trees sway

1. How far in advance should you buy airfare to Hawaii?

-Sign up for Google Flight Alerts to get specific information on this. Sign up for their email list and it will provide useful information. Unfortunately, since 2021, the price can go up and down like the stock market. So, unfortunately, there is no specific time frame to buy airfare

2. What is the difference between the time zone on the Mainland and the time zone in Hawaii?

-There is the unique Hawaiian Standard Time. It does not do daylight savings time. Hawaii is 2-3 hours behind the West Coast of the Mainland, 3-4 hours behind Mountain Time, 4-5 hours behind Central Time, and 5-6 hours behind the East Coast of the Mainland

3. Is a passport required to visit Hawaii?

-Since Hawaii is part of the United States, you won't need a passport. However, if you are planning on going outside the US, you will need a passport. That goes for everyone in your family, including babies if you are taking them

4. What should / can you wear in Hawaii?

-It can vary from one person to the next. Hawaii is a casual place where the ever popular "Hawaiian Shirt" is frequently seen. It's warm here, so warm weather clothing, such as t-shirts, tank tops, flip flops and shorts can be worn anywhere. If you plan on going to do any excursions, like ATV riding or horseback riding, bring the appropriate clothing, such as long pants and closed-toe shoes. And if you are planning on hiking, bring good walking shoes and light, breathable clothing. Since the sun is strong, bring good sunscreen. Make sure that if you go in to the ocean, your sunscreen is mineral-based rather than chemical-based because the chemical-based stuff can damage the reef and delicate ecosystem

5. Is there a main airport in Hawaii?

-Each island has its own airport. Most flights will bring tourists into Honolulu International Airport on the island of Oahu. Depending on traffic, it's about 20 minutes from Waikiki. Honolulu International Airport is also the airport that handles international flights as well

6. What island is Honolulu on?

-It's located on the island of Oahu. Waikiki is a neighborhood of Honolulu. This is one of the most populated islands out of all of the Hawaiian islands

7. How long should I stay in Hawaii?

-You can stay as long as you want. It usually depends on what all you want to see.7-10 business days are a good range for a start. This will give you time to get over jet lag, do some tours or excursions, find some nice beaches, eat great food and still have time to take in the breathtaking beauty. If you plan on visiting all of the islands, 5-7 days per island would be recommended

8. What is the best method of transportation between the islands?

-Inter-island flights are the answer. Hawaiian Airlines and Southwest Airlines are the two that do these. Like any airport, you'll need to go through security after arriving at the airport early. There's also a ferry that takes people from Maui to Lanai, but its run schedule is limited

9. What shouldn't I do in Hawaii?

-Don't be that tourist who thinks they are entitled to something. Be a good tourist. Say Aloha to people, treat them with respect. Obey the local laws and customs. Because if you break the law, the local Honolulu Police Department will want to talk to you. And it won't be like the older office Duke and the other police officers from the new television show Hawaii Five-O. Be patient. Not everyone is on vacation. You'll be interacting with people from various industries. Remember to tip. This shows gratitude for their hard work

10. What is the biggest problem in Hawaii?

-It might be shocking to those who have never been here, but there are homeless people in Hawaii. Homelessness here is such a problem because the cost of living is so high. Nearly everything has to be imported into the islands and the housing costs are so high

11. Where can I see an active volcano?

-The Big Island is the only place to see active volcanoes. Make Hawaii Volcanoes National Park your destination to see these living, breathing works of nature. Here you can see Kilauea

12. Can I take a ferry between islands?

-The answer is no. You cannot take a ferry between the islands. If you want to go to different islands, you must take an inter-island flight from either Southwest Airlines or Hawaiian Airlines

13. Can I drive between the islands?

-It's not even realistic. The answer is no. This is not the Florida Keys. To move between islands, once again you must take an inter-island flight from either Southwest Airlines or Hawaiian Airlines

14. What's the best island for a honeymoon?

-It all comes down to what you are hoping to do with your time here. If relaxation is your goal along with some fun excursions, Maui would be recommended. Snorkeling at Molokini Crater and road trips such as the Road to Hana are fun things to do. If this is your first trip to Hawaii, head to Oahu. This is where many of the iconic tourist places are. There, you'll find the Pearl Harbor Monument, Diamond Head, Kualoa Ranch and the iconic North Shore, where you can see surfers. For a slower pace of life, head to Kauai. Their food scene is top quality, with beautiful beaches and hidden resorts. To completely disconnect from city life, go to the Big Island. They have options fitting all price ranges for honeymoons. They also have volcanoes and waterfalls for nature lovers

15. If you have kids, what is the best island to start with?

-The answer can vary from family to family. Any of the islands will provide a breathtaking trip for kids. 

Oahu with kids

-This is the most popular option. It's home to the Disney Aulani Resort. You can see Pearl Harbor, the Dole Pineapple Plantation, the Waikiki Submarine and the Polynesian Culture Center

Maui with kids

-There are kid-friendly resorts with plenty of activities to keep the kids busy. There's the I'ao Needle, the Surfing Goat Dairy, the Maui Ocean Center, boat tours and more to do

Kauai with kids

-Laid-back is the rule of thumb here. Here, you can partake in snorkeling, ziplining, watching a fire dance show and even explore Waimea Canyon

Big Island with kids

-This provides families with kids an "authentic" Hawaiian experience. The Big Island is perfect for the outdoorsy types who love nature-related activities, such as snorkeling with manta rays, exploring active volcanoes, such as Kilauea at Hawaii Volcanoes National Park or checking out a Hawaii Chocolate farm

16. Where are the big waves in Hawaii?

-You'll need to head to the North Shore on Oahu. Go during the winter months of November-February. This is where you can see surfers of every skill level tackling the so-called "Hawaiian Roller Coaster."

17. What is the best time to visit Hawaii?

-There's no really bad time to visit Hawaii. In terms of weather, the winter months prove to be a bit rainy, but it never lasts long. During the summer months, from July-August, it can get hot and humid

18. When is the high season in Hawaii?

-It's mostly during school breaks when you'll see a lot more people in Hawaii than normal. It can be incredibly busy (and expensive) during the summer, with so many people going on vacation due to school breaks. Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays also prove to be a busy season. Spring break is also a popular time to go to Hawaii. The best times to go would be mid-April-June and September to mid-November. These tend to be the calmer times, when people are back in school and it's not as hectic

Monday, February 12, 2024

James Jagger admits to being embarrassed about being Mick Jagger's son

Sometimes it's hard to be a rock star's son or daughter. James Jagger certainly admits he is embarrassed to be the son of Rolling Stones front man Mick Jagger

James, who mother is model Jerry Hall, opened up in a new interview with OK Magazine, stating what it is like growing up with the sort of attention that comes with his father in the Rolling Stones and how uncomfortable it often made him feel. "I'm incredibly proud to be a member of the family. I absolutely adore my dad and I'm incredibly proud of all his achievements, so I'm proud to be his son. At times, you kind of wish you had more anononymity and, when you're a teenager, it can be embarrassing at times, but I've gotten over it." He talked about the struggle to make a name for himself in the entertainment world, being saddled with a famous last name, and how that acted as more of a hindrance than a help. "If you come from any family with a name, the British press prefer to shoot you down. They want a working class hero to be successful, a boy done good, not someone from a family of entertainers."

Certainly he's done good for himself, despite his last name.

Wednesday, January 3, 2024

The Christmas Shoes by Donna VanLiere

This is a short book. You can easily finish this book in a day or two. But heads up, it's sad

Summary

-Robert Layton is a rising attorney at his firm Williams, Mather & Hurst. With the long hours he puts in at work, his wife, Kate and two daughters, Lily and Hannah, are virtual strangers to him. He wants only the best for him and his family. Nathan Andrews is a second grader with a father named Jack, who works as a mechanic for City Auto Service, a sister named Rachel and a mother named Maggie, who's slowly dying of ovarian cancer. He only wants more time to spend with his mother. One Christmas Eve, destiny intervenes when Robert, who is doing last minute Christmas shopping, sees Nathan struggling to pay for a pair of shoes for his mother, "so she can look beautiful when she meets Jesus tonight", says the little boy. The boy does not have enough money, so Robert pays for the remainder and the boy runs out of the store, forever changing not only his own life, but Nathan's as well

-There was a movie made based on this book, starring Rob Lowe, but for some reason, in the movie, Maggie is said to have some sort of fatal heart defect. In the book, she has ovarian cancer. I'm not sure why they didn't keep it true to the book in the movie. Maybe, with it being on the Hallmark channel, they wanted it to be PG-13 or safe for all ages, who knows. Or maybe they thought ovarian cancer would be too mature for audiences

Thursday, August 10, 2023

More successful tips on flying with kids

Flying with kids can be stressful. Making sure you have everything you need to ensure a good vacation can be overwhelming. But, after a few times of doing travel with kids, you pretty much become a professional. Here are some tips on how to travel with kids like a pro.

Flying with Kids Under Two

-This is often THE most stressful type of travelling. Unless they can walk by themselves, odds are high they will need a stroller. And unless they are toilet trained, odds are also high that diapers will be among the items you are most worried about having. But, aside from those little minor instances, kids under two tend to be really excited about going somewhere they've never been. Nothing is more adorable than seeing that wide-eyed excitement of a child travelling to a new place

-Some airlines offer no cost to kids under two who fly because those kids can share a seat with Mom or Dad. While that certainly saves money, it also might happen that your child will need a seat of their own by the age of 2, in case they are big enough for their own seat. Depending on the length of the flight, you might find out quickly that buying a seat for your child will help your comfort and sanity

-If your child uses a car seat at home, bring that car seat with you. Make sure to check it in with the check-in desk of the airline you're flying through. Just make sure to strap your child in when everyone else is getting settled in. If they do well in a car seat, then they'll do just fine on the airplane. Just ignore the comments and dirty looks from the other passengers if you're supposedly holding up the line to address the needs of your little one(s) because people will say something or give you a look, like you're holding them up from sitting down (believe me, I've seen it on airplanes; people get ridiculous when boarding a plane because people are addressing their little ones needs)

-Introduce your kids to the flight crew, such as pilots, co-pilots, flight attendants. This makes them feel like they're part of the journey. Some kids even get wings as junior fliers

-If you're travelling with a baby, bring a baby carrier with you. Make a special checklist for baby when you are packing for vacation. This list should include everything that cute little baby will need for his/her first trip, such as toys, clothing, diapers, sunglasses, hats, sunblock, food, etc. You may not be able to wear the baby carrier during takeoff/landing, you can wear it in flight to keep the baby calm

-When booking your flight, let someone know you'll be travelling with an infant. There are many things to consider when travelling with babies and infants. Two of these things include where babies can sit on the plane or if the baby is sitting on your lap. Just make sure to express your wishes to travel with a baby to the airline check-in desk and boarding to ensure that little baby will have the time of their life

Booking Your Flight

-This is the part of the process where you get to choose what airline you're flying through and when you'll be flying out and if there are any layovers. Some airlines, like Southwest, have better family benefits than others. Choosing the right airline will guarantee maximum enjoyment for you and your family. Consider timing as well. Consider what time would be good to fly out. Early morning flights or evening flights are often the best because the child can sleep through the process of take off or landing. And even if they do wake up on the flight when everyone else is asleep, just let them know to be quiet to avoid waking others. These early morning or evening flights also help avoid departure delays. And take into consideration the possibility of layovers. While those might be cheaper than direct route flights, they can also add chaos into the mix and cut into travel time. Because, like you, your kids are excited about vacation because it's new and exotic to them and they want to get to the destination just as fast as you do

-Before you book your flight, call the airline ahead of time to inquire about being booked together as a family. Airlines are not legally required to put everyone together as a family. And if they can, that is good. If they are unable to put everyone together as a family, they will ensure that the family is not totally separated, just in seats near each other.

-If you're flying internationally, everyone needs a passport, including babies. Make sure that your passport is valid beyond the travel dates just to make sure you don't run into issues with foreign airport security. If you're travelling with someone who is not your son or daughter, such as a niece, nephew, grandchild, get a child travel consent form completed and signed by that family member who the child belongs to and take with you on the trip at all times so that if airport security asks you who that is, you can hand them the form and they'll know you're travelling with someone who is not your child and that you have permission to do so.

-Consider a TSA pre-check. This often eases the stress of long lines with one or more parents travelling in large groups. It helps ease the security process. If international travel is what you're doing, Global Entry is the ticket for you. It's good for five years and includes a TSA precheck.

At the Airport

-Now that you're at the airport, those kids are going to be just as excited as you. Everything around them is new and foreign to them and they want to explore everything. Nothing is cuter than that. Do a practice run of checking in to waiting at the gate, so your kids have an idea of what to expect. If your kids are the type to have a lot of energy, try to find activities to wear them down before the airplane starts boarding. So they'll be tired when they get on.

-Some airports have small entertainment areas, such as mini museums, kids activity centers, movie theaters and more. Do a few laps around the airport to wear down your kids energy.

Boarding the Plane

-The best part of the trip. Kids look forward to this as much as their parents do. Boarding early might work for some people, but resist the temptation to do so. More time on the plane means kids get antsy and want to start moving around, which might hamper other passengers from boarding. Some airlines allow those with small children to board first, since it takes some time.

-If you're bringing a stroller, bring a lightweight one that folds like an umbrella. These might look like the cheapest grade stroller, but airlines love these because there's not much weight to it and they're safe for flying and also light on weight for you. Check the stroller at the gate before boarding for no additional fees. Let the gate agent know you're bringing a stroller and they'll tag it for you. You can simply pick it up with your luggage at baggage claim with all the other luggage

On the Plane

-If you have children who are not yet fully toilet-trained, bring overnight diapers in your carry-on. Bring a pack of sanitizing wipes as well and wipe down every surface your child might touch, including the flip down tray. Since the temperatures in the plane can either be Arctic or stifling, dress for the temperatures. Wear comfortable clothes and dress in layers. If you're bringing a baby, bring a blanket to cover the baby and will also help block out light during nap time. Wear comfortable shoes on the plane so your feet aren't hurting the whole time.

-Bring a mask for everyone and insist they wear it on the plane except when eating or drinking. Because not everyone has the same level of consideration for others by openly coughing / sneezing without covering their mouths, there's a high chance you can catch a cold on the airplane, and it's not due to the cold air. An airplane is like a giant metal tube and those germs will float in the air, landing on anyone, potentially rendering them ill later on. To prevent you or your family from catching a virus from some inconsiderate doofus on the airplane who doesn't want to cover their mouth when sneezing or coughing, bring masks and insist everyone in your party wear one. This is post COVID-19 we're talking about. We'll never be rid of COVID-19; it's here forever. Make sure you protect you and your family by wearing a mask. So that you all won't get sick. And if you or your family do get sick with a cold later on, take a lot of Airborne or other immune-support gummies daily in addition to cold / flu medicine. Take at least 5-6 of those gummies or immune support supplements daily; it will help boost your immune system and, thus, get you better faster. And if you have a sore throat and believe in sweating out a cold, drink hot tea with honey in it. The honey will soothe your throat and the hot tea will soothe it as well.

-Make the flight extra special by allowing exceptions to the rules you normally follow at home. Find a rule you have at home and break it on vacation, provided the kids are behaving themselves. If they don't get snacks too often on the plane, break out some snacks for the little ones. It'll not only reward them for being good, it'll also fill them up and give them another reminder of a fun vacation to be. Break out the iPad or tablet loaded with kid-friendly material and make sure you have travel headphones.

-Bring snacks for the little ones and chew gum to avoid ear popping during takeoff / landing. With babies, there's nothing you can do about the ear popping. And they know it too. That's why babies cry; their ears are popping and they can't do anything about it. The best thing you can do is comfort the little ones until the pressure equalizes inside the airplane. After that, the cute little babies will be good to go. Make each item you have a surprise. Alternate between snacks and toys for the kids throughout the flight. Water coloring books and sticker books always work well because they're not messy.

Exiting the Plane

-This is what I jokingly call "the stampede". Everyone wants to get off the plane ASAP to start their vacation. But, you can't just go running off the plane; everyone wants to do that. Make sure to look everywhere so that you don't forget anything. If you're not in a particular rush, ask if it's okay to tour the cockpit, where the pilots sit and ask for a family photo. Just wait for everyone else to exit the plane and ask for permission from one of the flight attendants or pilots.

Tuesday, August 8, 2023

How to Successfully Manager a Plane Ride with Kids

Kids get antsy to start moving after a while. On a long plane, they get even more antsy and want to move around. We all know travelling with kids can be stressful. Depending on the age of the child, it can be overwhelming. Here's how to successfully manage a flight with kids.

Self-Care Prior to the Trip

-Take care of yourself before, during and after the trip

-Call some friends before flying

-Write down your anxieties and envision what a great trip it will be

-Exercise before the flight or a day before

-Carry an essential oil with you. Hand lotion might want to be avoided since it contains glycerin and glycerin tests positive for explosives at the airport. Take out the essential oil for a breath of calm before the storm

-If you're religious, say a prayer. If not, stay grounded and tell yourself everything will be okay

The actual trip

Timing is key

-Schedule the flight for the evening hours. So that kids will sleep better at night

Pack right

-If time is the issue, make packing your carry-on a priority over your suitcase. Finding things in transit is harder than when not in transit

Always go back to basics

-Guarantee that your kids have everything they need within easy reach- food, drinks, clothes, a favorite toy or plush animal

Comfort is good to consider

-Dress your kids in soft, comfy clothes in case they sleep on the airplane. Bring pillows and blankets to make them comfortable, no matter if it's a long or short flight

Consider entertainment

-Nowadays, there are specially-made Kindles for kids that can sometimes come preloaded with kid-friendly material. If there is no kid-friendly material on it, download some books or kid-friendly movies or TV shows to keep your little ones occupied. Just tell them when it's safe to start watching and make sure it's in Airplane Mode so it's safe. Since not all kids like in-ear buds, bring those oversized headphones for kids. And, you don't have to worry about the volume killing their hearing because most if not all kids headphones now come made with volume control on the actual headphones to prevent hearing loss

Avoid bringing car seats

-Nothing causes more headaches for parents than bringing car seats. You have to do all sorts of special arrangements at the check-in desk for the airline you're flying through. If you can, rent a car seat or arrange for family or friends to have one for you. So that you don't worry about bringing one and having the worry of it getting lost or stolen at the airport

Always ask for help

-There's nothing wrong with asking for help. The flight attendants are more than willing to assist passengers with anything they can

Self-Love

-Give yourself some love for making sure everything went smoothly. Remember that you are not alone here. Your spouse will also be there for you. And if you have older kids with you, they can help too

Wednesday, July 5, 2023

When Your Gut Instinct Proves to Be Accurate

It's been said that you should always trust your gut instinct. If something feels "off", "not right", then it probably is. Here are some times when people were saying prayers of thanks that the "off" and "not right" feelings they had were warranted. One very incredible example is centered around 9/11. Some people who worked in the World Trade Center were big football fans and were watching football the night before and were up late. They called in the next day, to say they were tired and couldn't make it into work. That saved their lives as the hijacked planes crashed into both towers, killing all on impact and thus, destroying the towers and taking some who worked in the towers who couldn't get out with them

1. Always Keep a Sharp Eye

-You can be mugged at any opportunity. It can be any one who does this. They do it for a quick buck because they think you have something to steal. This situation is more observation and less gut instinct. One person noted "I walked into a house party and got a really bad gut feeling. Most of my friends and I left. The people who didn't leave got mugged. It was pretty scary."

2. Almost supernatural

-Kids are very intuitive. They can often sense things far quicker than adults. This includes supernatural occurrences. Kids are far more sensitive to supernatural phenomena, such as ghosts / spirits and adults find their kids talking to seemingly no one, but in that child's mind, they are talking to the spirit of a loved one. With kids, sometimes crying and throwing a tantrum is not their way of getting attention; they just have a bad feeling. One person noted "I was like 5 or 6 when my mum and sisters wanted to go for a drive out of town. I cried because I just didn't want to go with them for some reason, and decided to go with my other sister in her car. Turns out, my mum and other sisters ended up crashing...Luckily my fam was okay though...But I sure did feel really cool after that."

3. The Stereotypical White Van

-This unmarked van is almost stereotypically associated with bad people. Child molesters prowling neighborhoods crawling with kids looking for new victims. Rapists looking for new victims. The unmarked white van or unmarked van is almost always associated with suspicious activity, including its slow prowl up streets. Kids might be naive and trustworthy, but they're also very intuitive, have no filter and speak the truth very frequently and tend to be more observant than most adults. They tend to notice when something feels "off" a little quicker. One person noted "In elementary school when we had a recess. It was pretty average and we left at the normal time but it just felt very off to me, but because I was 8 and didn't have common sense yet, I brushed the feeling off. Turns out that there was literally a guy that had been scoping out the playground for kids to lure to him in a stereotypical white van."

4. Avoid the haunted house

-Two things happened here. One person was laughing at the concept that the house was haunted and felt some sort of entity was warning them to stay away. The other person ignored this entity and bought the house anyway. One person noted "While house hunting, we came across a seemingly perfect home. But a nagging feeling made us pass on it... Months later, the house suffered a major electrical fire, confirming our intuition and saving us from potential harm...Always trust your gut."

5. "Ice, Ice, Baby"

-Sounds like the Vanilla Ice song ripping off "Under Pressure" by David Bowie and Queen. Any one can tell you that driving on ice is not only dangerous, but can be life threatening. Especially because of impatient / careless drivers trying to get somewhere yesterday and they're not paying attention and they slide or crash right into you! It's often worse with bigger cars, trucks and even semis. Semis, also known as tractor trailers, are often the worst drivers in icy weather. If they hit you the right way, that's your death sentence because they are like flying missiles. If you've been driving long enough, you know what feels right and what feels wrong on your car and you know enough to drive carefully in inclement weather. This person had good instincts on their side and a strong knowledge of their car. One person noted "Pulling over before engine seized on icy road, we were in a s---box and I knew the engine was going out so the wheels would've stopped sending us into a tree."

6. Be a hero

-Anytime you see kids near the road, it's important to exercise extreme caution. When kids play near the road, there's that chance that the ball they play with might go out into the road and, as kids do, they chase after it. It's incredibly important to be a careful driver when kids are around. They know to look both ways, but sometimes they forget that. And even adults don't look both ways. Then there are those adults that, as someone is LITERALLY INSIDE A CROSSWALK, will keep edging closer and closer to going as the person gets to the other side. They don't want to wait the time for the green light. One person said "I was walking out of a grocery store when I saw this kid about to cross the road. Something came over me and I yanked him back onto the sidewalk. Not even a second later a truck came flying past. He was probably around 7 or 8ish."

7. Nature is talking

-While not a "gut reaction", it's still good to know what it represents. If you're walking through a lush forest that is usually loud with the buzzing of insects, chirping and calling of birds and noises of animals and suddenly goes dead silent, be on the alert! That means that those insects and animals have detected the presence of a large, dangerous animal. Time to get out! One person said "During my solo trip in the Amazon, I had a remarkable experience. I felt a strange discomfort and opened my eyes to find an unsettling silence. I returned to the safety of the nearby jungle lodge and shared my experience with the guide, who said that such silence often indicates the presence of a dangerous predator. It was a surreal moment that deepened my appreciation for the enigmatic nature of the Amazon."

8. Never forget to wear your seatbelt

-Police will always tell you this and now they are ticketing drivers who fail to wear their seatbelt. Cars nowadays are even coming with alerts that will keep going off until you click that safety belt. Some people think seatbelts are a waste of time; tell them that when they get in to a crash and end up in the hospital or dead. The person who gave this story admits to not wearing a seatbelt and now is a fully fledged supporter of wearing one. "I used to neglect wearing my seatbelt until one day, a gut feeling prompted me to buckle up. Shortly after, we were hit by a car going 60 mph. The police confirmed that without my seat belt, I would have been ejected through the windshield. Now I always wear my seatbelt without question."

9. Granddad to the rescue!

-Dad's "gut instinct" can be just as powerful as Mom's "intuition". Even grandfathers can have those gut feelings. And this here is a prime example of why it's incredibly important to check fire alarms and carbon monoxide detectors. Over 400 people can die each year from carbon monoxide poisoning and doctors treat over 50,000 patients who suffer from this. They are easily identified by their cherry-red skin, which is a symptom of poisoning by carbon monoxide. One person in England had this to say. "My grandfather had a sudden gut feeling that something was wrong at my house. Trusting his intuition, he rushed to our house to find everyone unconscious due to carbon monoxide poisoning. Acting heroically, he single-handedly carried or dragged each family member to safety."

10. Another tragedy related to the Titanic

-Recently, the news has been playing stories of a submersible going down into the North Atlantic, to explore the ruins of the sunken RMS Titanic. The submersible excursion ended in disaster; it imploded due to the incredibly high pressure and killed all onboard. In a strange turn of events, a Portuguese business man and CEO named Mario Ferreria, the CEO of Mystic Cruises, had a chance to go on board the ill-fated submersible.  He said "My friend who was on the submarine told me that my place was [still] free and that I could go with him. We had been together on Friday, and he left on the private plane to go on board. I didn't want to go. We met in the Blue Origin astronaut group. And he challenged me to a mission to the Titanic. I thought I shouldn't go, and I didn't go. Glad I didn't go."

11. The kindness of a stranger

-When we have those moments where we couldn't get lower, pep talks from the ones we know and love don't always work. It seems that complete strangers sometimes get through to us better and quicker than family and friends. One person said "While walking my dog in the park, I encountered a crying teenaged girl. Trusting my instincts, I approached her and discovered she was feeling suicidal. We had a heartfelt conversation, and I provided support. Although I've moved away, we still keep in touch."

12. Job of dreams

-While this may not be a gut instinct, it's still powerful to know when to act on a bad feeling. One person said "I turned down a dream job with a significant salary increase in a different city based on my gut feeling. Two months later, the division was sold, and everyone in that department lost their jobs..."

13. A prime example of "Look both ways"

-Whenever you see no cars at the stop light and you have the right of way to use the crosswalk, it's always good to look around to make sure no cars are coming. There's always that off chance that someone is going to run the red light and hit someone, despite their having the right of way and being safely in the crosswalk. One person notes "I was waiting for at a traffic light crossing for the signal to say it's safe to go. When it did switch to green, I had a feeling not to move, so I didn't. After about 6 seconds of staring at the green pedestrian crossing light wondering to myself why I wasn't moving, a car ran the light." 

14. Big sister is here

-Kids near pools are the biggest fear for any parent. If they know their child can swim, that's one thing. But if the child is too young to learn how to swim (when is too young to learn how to swim?), then that's a whole near fear setting in. Nothing is scarier than a child drowning in a pool. One sibling notes "I was at a party when I was about 5, and I saw my little brother go into the pool area, my gut told me to follow him and he thought the cover was a step, he fell in the pool, I grabbed his arm and called for help and he still lives to this day."

15. Fateful Titanic Escape

-Everyone knows the story of the Titanic. It thought it had narrowly escaped an iceberg, but what wasn't realized is that while icebergs may seem small on top, their massive body is hidden underneath the water. Plus, with a fire occurring in the hull of the ship prior to it's maiden voyage, there was no time to fix the weakened steel because captains and crew wanted to sail on time. That weakened steel only helped the iceberg scrape the ship, sending it to its icy grave at the bottom of the Atlantic. One person's family was affected by it. Their great great grandmother had good instinct and stayed behind. "There's a family legend about my great great grandmother. She was 22 and her rich boyfriend got them tickets for the Titanic. She suspected he would propose on the ship. But one of her brother's friends had a bad feeling and convinced her not to go. She trusted him and stayed behind. Her boyfriend didn't make it, but she ended up marrying the friend who saved her."

16. Listen to the wife

-Two valuable lessons to always follow: never leave valuables in your car and listen to your wife. Sure, a wife can be wrong, but it's better to play it safe. It takes less effort to get your valuables out of the car than it does to argue with the one you promised you'd love and cherish until death do you part. One person noted "One night in college, my husband and I arrived home exhausted after a long day. He wanted to leave his backpack and computer in the car...But for some reason I urged him otherwise. the next morning his car had been broken into..."

17. Keep sharp eyes out

-It's always important to stay vigilant when in unfamiliar territory. A father was going to take his son to court with him to show him what dad did "at the office". But, with a sudden change in heart, that saved the child's life. "My dad had to attend court for a long-overdue payment issue at work. He planned to take me along to expose me to the adult world. But he had a sudden change of heart. As fate would have it, he got T-boned on the passenger side of the car. The car was completely wrecked, and I would have been seriously injured if I had been there."

18. Mom to the rescue!

-It's common thought that once a woman has kids, she becomes a superhero, a psychic / clairvoyant all in one. She can save lives, read minds and practically predict what's going to happen next before it even happens. It's a known fact that each year, over 350 children drown to death in pools, usually in backyards, where there is no supervision. One person noted "My mom's intuition pulled my brother out of a dangerous daycare. she left, but a nagging feeling prompted her to return. She arrived to find the daycare provider asleep while the children played unsupervised near a pool. She swiftly removed him from that daycare, preventing any potential harm."

19. Saved by the phone

-Phones can do a lot of good. They allow us to talk or text our loved ones. They allow us access to emergency personnel. They can also do a lot of bad, especially in the case of bullying. But in this instance, it did a lot of good. One person said "My dad, who usually dislikes my aunt, called her out of the blue one night. It turned out she was holding pills with plans to end her life. His instinct saved her, and now she's grateful to be alive..."

20. #misbehaviorforthewin

-Putting your child in the front seat is fine if they are old enough and tall enough. If they are too small and too young, it's the backseat for them! No ifs, no buts, no coconuts about it!! It's simply too dangerous for them to be in the front seat. Things can go wrong in a split second. One person noted "As a kid, I had a sudden urge to move from the front seat to the back seat while stopped at a red light. My mom scolded me...Moments later, another car crashed into the passenger side...Had I remained in the front seat, the outcome could have been fatal."

21. Intuition to the rescue

-Everyone has intuition or gut instincts. They are what keep us safe. That little voice in your head questioning whether something feels right or wrong. Also called your conscience. One person noted "I used to be a person who did things that are let's say...illegal. I learned to trust my gut feelings during these times. I almost rode with a friend once on the back of his bike...I had rode with him before, but this time I knew not to. I tried warning him, but he didn't listen to me. We found out the next day he had died of a head on collision with a tree."

22. Very creepy

-For those who are unaware, the BTK (Bind, Torture, Kill) Killer was a man named Dennis Rader. He terrorized the US from 1974-1991 with ten horrified victims left behind. Like most serial killers, he taunted the police and media as a way of saying they couldn't catch him. One person almost became his next victim. One person said "Mom was a realtor. Met up one day with a home inspector about a house. Both of us had this gut feeling that something seemed off about the guy. I would usually hang out inside/around the homes while my mom did her stuff. This time she had me stay in the car, doors unlocked, and her cellphone on. Found out a few weeks later that the home inspector was BTK

23. Superhero Moms

-Back to the very true concept of mothers having super powers. Mothers are not only superheroes, they are psychics / clairvoyants because they can predict what others are going to say / do before it happens. They are also doctors, fixing injuries and surgeons, fixing toys. Some families are close and talk constantly. Some go for a month or two without talking. One person said "My mom called me late one night after we hadn't spoken in about a month. We chatted for a few minutes before I told her I'd just taken a bunch of pills with the intent to kill myself just before she called. She phoned an ambulance and, you know, I'm still here."

24. Your gut instinct never leads you astray

-It's been said time and time again. Trust your gut. If you have a feeling that something is "off", "doesn't feel right" or you just have a "bad feeling" about something, it's probably accurate. Normally, one would stop and offer help to two people lying on the side of the road, thinking car trouble is the number one culprit. But the person who donated this story instead called the police. "I was driving and I saw a car in the middle of the road with two people lying on the ground. My gut feeling was that something is suspicious here and I decided to act on it by driving past it. I stop to call the police and I look in my rearview mirror to see the two people lying on the road stand up with five other people coming out of the bushes."

25. When offered this ride, just say no

-Women often have a strong sense of instinct called intuition. Women can sense when something is not right. When a man started off acting friendly and polite to her, her defenses went up. The important characteristic was revealed when he offered a ride to her young daughter. This made the mother's defenses go on full high alert. "Had a feeling that a guy I had met - was NOT OK. He was friendly and mannerly and interesting, BUT my gut told me there was something else...He had offered my daughter (age 11 or so) a ride somewhere and I told her NOT to take a ride with him. We found out he later killed his girlfriend and her mother."

26. Avoiding the unknown

-Our gut instinct / intuition can act as a silent, invisible guardian against unknown dangers, even though there's no evidence to support danger. It's always important to listen to your gut instinct; it hardly ever leads you astray. If something just feels "off" about a person or situation, it's probably safe to say it's not worth the risk. One woman found herself in a dilemma when her boyfriend became insistent upon attending a party at one individual's home. "I had a boyfriend who was a lot older than me, who was immature and drank a lot. We used to tour around these parties out of farms a long way from town etc. He kept asking me to go party at this one guy's place. I don't know why but my gut said no...Turned out the guy is a suspected serial killer who was active around that time."

27. Good luck on parking

-With apartment complexes, condo complexes, there are certain designated spots or stalls that the residents have to park in. They sometimes even have driveways to park in. Despite fatigue, people still listen to their conscience and gut instinct. One night, fatigued after delivering pizzas, one delivery driver listened to her gut. "Returning home after delivering pizzas late at night, a strong sense of unease compelled me to park in the driveway instead of the parking area. My husband questioned my decision, but I couldn't explain the feeling. The following morning, we discovered a fallen tree had demolished the car of the upstairs neighbor. If I had parked there, my car would have been damaged too."

28. Stranger Danger

-This is what parents usually say to refer to strangers. "Never talk to strangers" or "stranger danger", are two terms used to describe the concept of never talking to those you don't know. Some kids are easily fooled by strangers because these strangers know just how trusting and naive children are. They know candy and animals often attract a child's attention. One person said "At age 5 I was almost abducted by strangers at the park who had a bunch of toys on a blanket and tried to lure me into their motor home. I got a "tummy ache" when one of them tried to coax me by reaching for my arm to lead me away, and I screamed and ran like h--- back to my dad. Years later I found out those same people had abducted other kids who weren't so lucky."

29. Safety on the road

-A lot of people don't understand the concept of riding a motorcycle. There's nothing between you and the road should you crash. The only thing that is protected is your head provided you're wearing a helmet, which unfortunately, a lot of motorcycle riders often are not wearing. But then those who are riding a motorcycle say there's something exciting about the feeling of wind on your face or skin on the open road as you cruise down the road. And as long as you are operating the motorcycle safely or are with someone who knows how to operate a motorcycle safely, you and your companion will be good to go. One person noted "Was riding my motorcycle with a friend on the back. We were going down a country road behind a truck hauling a bunch of old car tires when all of a sudden I decided we shouldn't be there, so I slowed way down to let the truck go ahead of us. Just as I did one of the tires fell off the truck and landed right where we would have been."

30. Not much of a party

-It's been said that there are two types of people in this world: the trusting types and the suspicious types. The suspicious types tend to question when something feels "funny" and the trusting types don't question it at all. Unfortunately, the suspicious types are less likely to find trouble because they trusted their gut. Sometimes it pays off to be the trusting type because you can have fun while it also pays to be the suspicious type so you can avoid trouble. One person said "Had a friend who said we should go to this party. We ended up driving out to it, we noticed the neighborhood was not too pleasant. The house had some lights on in the backyard but kind of quiet for a party. I decided that we should not go since something felt really off. One of our classmates got robbed when they got there. It was a fake party."

31. It's important to stick together

-Sticking together when you're with multiple people is important. Even if it's only you and one other person, you must keep an eye out for each other. When you feel something is "off", trust your gut. One person noted "Was in Pennsylvania for Memorial Day weekend camping. Everyone wants to go to get a few things left out. I felt like something was off so I stayed back in my hammock. I was the only one who stayed, and a drunk driver ended up hitting the car all my friends were in."

32. Giving us the run around

-Relationships are hard to find and sometimes hard to maintain. It's you and another person. Two different personalities coming together and hopefully finding love in the chaos of getting to know each other better. Some people meet their perfect one, their "soulmate" in high school. Some meet their soulmate later on down the road. How do you know you've found THE ONE? Trust your gut. One person said "My ex-gf...I dated her while she was separated and going through a divorce (she had 2 kids, not mine). We broke up, she dated another guy, got married and pregnant within 6 months. They are now going through a divorce...while she is dating a new guy. Bullet dodged."

33. I wouldn't if I were you

-Your conscience is there to aid you in the right and wrong of life. If your conscience is telling you "I wouldn't if I were you", it's a good idea to trust your conscience and your gut instinct. This can also be used when travelling abroad to a place one has never been. Always trust your gut. If something doesn't feel right, it probably isn't. It's easy to get lost because you don't know the area; it's always easier to ask the locals how to get somewhere so that at least you have a better chance of getting correct information. One person notes "Not me but when my mum was a teenager on 18th November 1987, she was going to London to visit a friend. She decided she was going to take a taxi instead of going by tube because it didn't feel right  (King's Cross tube station). Ten minutes later the whole station caught on fire and 30 out of the 40 people passed away."

34. Mind blowing

-Anyone who hears about a child with a gun automatically starts worrying. But, how do you know that that child doesn't know what he or she is doing? If they have a parent who teaches them responsible gun ownership, and teaches them how to assemble / disassemble a gun, clean it, load / unload it and teaches the child about the gun, inside and out, check for errors then that is more than incredible. That is responsible gun ownership. It's important to teach about gun safety around children. This also extends to putting guns in a locked safe or cabinet unloaded and keeping the ammunition separate from the guns. It's always good to follow your gut instinct about guns. If you feel something is not right, it's probably accurate; something is not right. One person noted, while at a gun range "At a gun range, I had a feeling something was wrong before firing another round from my dad's S&W 9mm. Upon inspection, I found a lodged round halfway down the barrel. Avoiding a potential explosion, I disassembled the gun..." Frankly, the father of this child had taught them well about responsible gun ownership. 12 years old is early enough to start learning how to use a gun responsibly

35. Moms know best

-Once again, the "moms have superpowers" concept. No matter how many times it's said, it's true! Mothers are superheroes, surgeons, psychics / clairvoyants all wrapped in one package. One mother's instincts helped save her family. One of those family members said "During a family trip to the South of Sri Lanka, my mother had a strong feeling not to go to the planned coastal destination. We changed our plans and later discovered that the hotel we initially booked was destroyed by the tsunami..."

36. Something seems off...

-When camping in the woods, it's always good and safe to go with your gut instinct. If it suddenly becomes dead quiet, that means there is a predator lurking in the vicinity. And sometimes blue sky and sunshine days can morph into tornado and thunderstorm black cloud and lightning days. Nature is unpredictable. But as long as you follow your gut instinct when something feels "off", then you'll be safe. "I was going to go camping in Western Maine. I was on a small mountain and the weather just felt off. I had just pitched my tent to but I had a feeling I wasn't going to enjoy the night so I packed up and went home. Next day I find out a tornado ripped through the area I was in. Next week I go out to find the path of destruction it left went right through where my campsite was."

37. Maternal instincts

-Prior to their babies being born, mothers know. Being a parent is a learn-as-you-go job. There is no book on perfect parenting. You go with what works, learn new methods and disregard and abandon what doesn't work. Mothers seem to know about their children before they're even born. One woman stated "The day I had my son. I was 34 weeks and was feeling great but something felt different. I ended up going to the ER and having an emergency C-section. I was told that if I hadn't listened to my gut, my son most likely wouldn't have survived and I probably wouldn't have either. But here we are, happy and healthy!"

-I can also provide an example from my life. My mother had a cousin named Tony who was a breech baby (baby in the opposite position of a normal baby; it's normally supposed to be head first, feet last. With breech babies it's feet first, head last.) Because of this, the umbilical cord wrapped around his neck, cutting off vital oxygen to the brain and causing him to have cerebral palsy. Not bad enough to put him in a wheelchair, but bad enough that he has violent changes in mood and a slight speech impediment. My maternal grandmother warned my mother about being pregnant with my sister. She said that my mother should get checked for a breech baby. Sure enough, my sister was a breech baby. The doctor had managed to turn her around somehow, but my sister reversed and went back to the initial position.

-When it came time to give birth, my maternal grandmother insisted my mother have a C-section to save my sister's life. Luckily, my mother listened to both her mother and gut instinct. Because initially my mother didn't want another child. But she kept seeing all these religious commercials and looked up and said "OK, I get the message." My mom went through with the C-section and it ended up successful; turned out the umbilical cord would have wrapped around my sister's neck if my mother had given birth naturally and she would have had any number of conditions, including cerebral palsy. My grandmother told my mother that she had better have a C-section otherwise my sister would end up like my mother's cousin Tony. Today, my sister is a happy, healthy, goofy, country-music loving, squirrel and flamingo-loving person and is also engaged to a guy she met on Facebook through friends from high school

38. CraigsList can't be trusted

-This is not a trustworthy site. You can buy nearly anything on that site and I mean NEARLY ANYTHING! You can even get dates on that site. How weird?!? This is one platform often used for scams. Luckily, one person who went on CraigsList avoided a robbery. "After receiving an email from a potential buyer on CraigsList, offering $140 for a used bike I initially bought for $160, I was thrilled. But a strange feeling prompted me to Google his name, revealing a criminal history of home burglary and robbery. I obviously didn't go through with the sale."

39. Madness in the barbershop

-Most people regard a barbershop as a sort of meeting place to hang out and talk. Sounding like a mystery novel or movie, a man walking down the street has a sudden feeling of impending doom and decides to wait a bit before doing his errand. Not waiting would have resulted in his murder. "I walk walking to the barbershop, and for some reason, everything just felt off. Every step I took made me feel like something wasn't right, so I decided to go home. I saw police cars and ambulances driving to around where I was before, it turns out there was a murder. Now I always listen to my gut."

40. Pregnancy intuition

-It's been said, time and time again, that when a woman becomes a mother, whether during pregnancy or after childbirth, she develops psychic / clairvoyant powers, superheroes and her instincts are strengthened by 100x. She can sense when something isn't right, which is good because it could affect not only her health, but the health of the baby she's bringing into this world. One woman said she was so in touch with her child that she could sense danger before it even presented itself. "At 41 weeks pregnant, despite the doctor's reassurances, I insisted on an earlier appointment. It turns out my baby was born with the umbilical cord wrapped around her neck, but she was quickly released without critical harm. Luckily I listened to my instincts."

41. Kudos to you

-Stealing isn't right. If you're a religious person, you should know it's one of the Ten Commandments; "Thou shalt not steal". Those who do are going to answer for it later, whether you're caught or not. In this case, all a thief managed to get from a woman's purse was a pack of pills and a juice box. "I had a gut feeling I should pull my wallet and phone out of my purse. Not even 20 seconds later, I get mugged. The man dragged me across the sidewalk and stole my purse BUT all he ended up getting was a juice box and my birth control."

42. Superhero Moms

-There are tons of stories proving mothers are superheroes. It's really quite frightening how they can predict what their kids or spouses will say or do before it's even done. You almost find yourself dumbstruck, thinking "how did she know?" And the answer when you ask the question is "a mother always knows". One woman states "While picking up my son from school, I was compelled to engage in conversation with the receptionist. Little did I know that I would suddenly have a seizure and lose consciousness. Had I not stayed, I would have experienced a seizure while driving on the interstate with my son in the car..."

43. Trust your spouse

-Not only do mothers have good intuition, so do dads and husbands. And even boyfriends. So it's pretty much agreed that men and women have good senses of intuition. It's been said the longer a couple is together, the more compatible and "in sync" they are with each other, almost to the point of mind reading. It's easy to see why there are so many stories of husbands and wives saving each other from the brink of disaster. "Anticipating potential icy road conditions, I debated with my husband about the safest route to work. He warned me about the dangers of the express lane due to barriers and ice. I considered taking that route, but I changed my mind. It turned out there was a massive 150-car pileup with fatalities on the express road due to ice."

44. #managersforthewin

-We all like to stick it to authority every great now and again, but there are the times when management is right. One manager managed to have their employee's life saved by an argument over the cost of a Red Bull. "One ordinary work day, I planned to go to the dollar store for a Red Bull. My boss initially declined my offer to split the cost but suddenly changed his mind without explanation. Annoyed, I pushed the door open only to hear a shattering sound. An SUV had crashed into the store. My boss' irritating delay ended up saving my life."

45. An eerie silence

-This is never good. When it's too eerily silent, something just feels off. When you're out and about in nature, like camping, dead silence usually signals the approach or presence of some sort of predator. One person said "I was building a fort in the woods near my house as a kid. Got this eerie feeling that something was wrong so I packed my stuff and made my way home. Next day, on my way to school on the bus, my friend mentioned a cougar his family saw running across the road that was within a couple hundred feet of where I was."

46. Is it hot here or is it just me?

-Another case of your conscience ringing the bells of alarm. If you sit down somewhere and it's warm, look around. It's probably the stoop of a house that's been sitting in the sun for a while. Or, in the case of this person, sitting on an electrical box that was close to sparking and igniting, possibly taking the person with it in the fire due to start. "Sitting on an electrical box during a blackout, I noticed flickering electricity in my house. Realizing the box could be the source, I quickly stood up and moved away. Within seconds, it exploded, shooting a towering pillar of flame. I narrowly avoided a dangerous and potentially fatal situation."

47. Superhero brother

-Just like moms, siblings can also sense when something is off with their loved ones. The man who gave this story drove all the way home just to take his sister to the hospital. "While visiting friends in Phoenix, my boyfriend has a strong urge to leave. Without hesitation, I followed his lead. We drove straight to his parents' rural house in San Antonio. Just moments before our arrival, his sister had a severe accident, and we were there to assist."

48. Some fear is good

-Going on rollercoasters can be scary. You don't know what to expect. But once you're on, there's no going back until the ride is over. When over, your heart is racing and you want to immediately do it again because it was so much fun. The fact that these rides are often strongly inspected it s a good thing. No one wants to ride on a ride and have an important component come off. I've been line for two coasters at the local theme park, Kings Island, for two steel coasters called Diamondback and Banshee, and have been told those rides were shut down due to maintenance issues. While maintenance fixed the rides and declared the green light go on them, everyone was happy. One thing to always worry about is that lap bar coming off and you flying off. There have been stories about people getting injured and even killed on roller coasters over the years. That is why there are attendants nowadays who come by and check that everything is in good operational order. They make sure the over the shoulder braces and head supports are working on rides that will jerk you from side to side or doing pretzel loops, corkscrew turns or barrel rolls. They make sure the lap bar keeps you in the car on steel coasters or wood coasters. One person said their gut instinct proved right with rollercoasters. "Despite my fear of roller coasters, I rode one in the dark and surprisingly enjoyed it. When my friends wanted one final ride before closure, my gut feeling urged me not to join. I waited with the bags as they returned, pale-faced. During the ride, my friend's safety bar had risen up, causing a terrible accident. It was horrifying."

49. It's always good to trust your gut

-Your gut instinct is hardly ever wrong. Some people just take longer to realize something is off than others do. It's incredibly important to trust your gut instinct and intuition. One person said "My mother's intuition saved my grandfather's life we he had a stroke in their living room. While we were out walking, she decided to check on him, and I witnessed his critical condition. She called 911 twice, ensuring timely help. Over a decade later, he is still alive and well."

50. Somebody's watching me...

-Like that 80s song "Somebody's Watching Me" by that singer Rockwell, we all get that hair-raising-on-the-back-of-our-neck feeling that we're being watched. We all get that tingling feeling that someone or something is watching us from the shadows where we can't see them, but they can definitely see us. One person got that eerie feeling walking on a nature trail. "I was walking on a hiking trail, and got that being watched feeling. This was in the woods, no one was around. I turned around and walked back out to the trailhead and went home. On the news that night I saw a mountain lion had been hunting there and attempted to attack another hiker that day."

51. Some people just ooze bad vibes

-You can generally get a feeling about people from talking to them. Some people you feel you can trust after talking to them and getting a feel for them. Some people just give you bad vibes immediately. Some people you feel bad vibes just by looking at them. But the phrase to keep in mind here is "Don't judge a book by its cover". Sometimes the most well put together people can give off the worst vibes while the more run down or normal looking people have the best intentions. "I was learning violin when I was about 10. I got the weirdest feeling from the teacher even though he didn't do anything. After 4 lessons I told my parents that I had a terrible feeling about him and never wanted to go back. They listened and didn't make me go to him ever again. A few years later, he was arrested for molesting multiple students. I have no idea how I knew something was off."

52. Poor animal

-Whenever someone hears a story about animals and something bad happening, a lot of sympathy goes towards the animals. The animals are the victims in those cases. People bringing in exotic animals just to sell for cash. People bringing in dogs from other countries just to breed in puppy mills and selling for quick bucks because they're pure bred dogs. People bringing in exotic breeds of dog just to sell for quick money. You definitely feel your heartstrings getting yanked every time you see a story about this on the news. One person was incredibly angry that her dog had been left out in the cold by an inconsiderate, rude roommate. "I woke up from a deep sleep at like 2am during a winter storm, something wasn't right...I immediately went looking for my senior dog and couldn't find her anywhere in the house. My roommates had a tendency to let her out for a walk and forget about her, closing the door. I ran to the front of the house and found her laying on the welcome mat, she was hardly breathing and covered in snow...she had been outside alone for at the very least 5 hours. I moved out shortly after."

53. Final Destination

-This is the name of a series of movies where people try, unsuccessfully, to cheat Death, but Death eventually gets them in the end. In the case of this story, it was safer to get OUT of the car than stay in it on a narrow mountain pass. "While on a rainy road trip through mountains with my dad, I felt an unsettling sensation and urged him to leave the car for safety. Moments later, a massive boulder crushed our vehicle. Since then, "Final Destination" became my least favorite movie."

54. Risks with online dating

-This is incredibly true. With online dating, you don't know who you're talking to. People can lie and scam people. You think you might be talking to one person when it's really another. That's how child pedophiles can lure so many victims to them. Kids get online and get into chat rooms and think they are talking to another kid when it's really an adult. With online dating, it's good to go with your gut instinct. Sometimes the people you speak with are who they say they are and sometimes they're not. If your gut is telling you something is off about that person, trust the feelings. Your gut instinct will hardly ever be wrong. "After connecting with a guy in Instagram, I planned to meet him in my city. However, my gut feeling strongly warned me against it. Trusting my instincts, I canceled the meeting, which angered him. Later, I discovered he had attempted to kidnap a girl from his college campus."

55. Are guardian angels real?

-A lot of people don't believe in the concept of guardian angels. They think that it's a matter of good luck, coincidence, gut instinct or intuition and good reflexes that keep us out of trouble. Sometimes when something feels off, it's either out instincts coming to the rescue or someone looking out for you. "A few years ago, my brother and I were set to take a train on Saturday to visit our granduncle. But a weird feeling led me to book the tickets for Friday instead. We later discovered that the Saturday train we were supposed to take had crashed, resulting in fatalities and injuries. It was a very strange experience..."

56. A miracle patient

-Grandmothers are often one of the more special people on the planet. Some people are incredibly lucky and blessed to have grandmothers who love their grandkids and teach them various things while some have grandmothers who are not so nice. It's never too late to show them gratitude, despite only appreciating them when they leave. "After my father's funeral, I returned home and noticed my grandma acting strangely. Despite reassurances that she was just grieving, I trusted my instincts and called for a wellness check. It turned out she had dangerously low potassium levels. Always trust your instincts!"